"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Look deep inside yourself and see the battle that rages on. See: Inner Stuggles

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*This is the Inner Struggles Series compiled by my fellow Moderator Brazilian Blues Boy. In his compelling and always inspirational way, Brazilian Blues Boy brings to our attention the biggest of spiritual struggles that we... male adolesence face on a daily basis. After identifying these demons, Brazilian Blues Boy offers some rather candid and heartfelt advice on how to overcome those demons. Much like a blues singer who has lived quite a toiled life, Brazilian Blues Boy's words seem to rise from an internal place, as if he had just finished living the very advice that he dispenses. A very informative collection of information... Brazilian Blues Boy's post, is one for the ages... enjoy.

Words by The Matrix: Reloaded*


The Series Begins in:
Inner Struggles: The Series

Is It Love Or Lust? Find out in:
Confusion of Lust

Should You Follow Everyone Or Be Your Own Self? Here's a clue:
The Curse of Rebeliousness

Why Do We Care What Others Think? Read about it:
The Hollow Necessity of Validation

It Was One Great Ride. But even all great things must end:
Conclusions of a New Born Man
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wow

I didn't expect such an honor from my dear brothers.

Well, as I don't have material for my new series yet, I've always wanted to do an inspirational post inspired on a song, and I'll do it tonight as a retribution to this compilation.

Like you guys know it, BBB at its most original.

Thanks a lot, I'm flattered. And look forward to BBB - Resist

BBB
 

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Re: Wow

Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
I didn't expect such an honor from my dear brothers.

Well, as I don't have material for my new series yet, I've always wanted to do an inspirational post inspired on a song, and I'll do it tonight as a retribution to this compilation.

Like you guys know it, BBB at its most original.

Thanks a lot, I'm flattered. And look forward to BBB - Resist

BBB
Haha, surprise! As far as another series...Great, can't wait for it! Keep up the good work man and get on AIM soon.
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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