"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Look deep inside yourself and see the battle that rages on. See: Inner Stuggles

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*This is the Inner Struggles Series compiled by my fellow Moderator Brazilian Blues Boy. In his compelling and always inspirational way, Brazilian Blues Boy brings to our attention the biggest of spiritual struggles that we... male adolesence face on a daily basis. After identifying these demons, Brazilian Blues Boy offers some rather candid and heartfelt advice on how to overcome those demons. Much like a blues singer who has lived quite a toiled life, Brazilian Blues Boy's words seem to rise from an internal place, as if he had just finished living the very advice that he dispenses. A very informative collection of information... Brazilian Blues Boy's post, is one for the ages... enjoy.

Words by The Matrix: Reloaded*


The Series Begins in:
Inner Struggles: The Series

Is It Love Or Lust? Find out in:
Confusion of Lust

Should You Follow Everyone Or Be Your Own Self? Here's a clue:
The Curse of Rebeliousness

Why Do We Care What Others Think? Read about it:
The Hollow Necessity of Validation

It Was One Great Ride. But even all great things must end:
Conclusions of a New Born Man
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow

I didn't expect such an honor from my dear brothers.

Well, as I don't have material for my new series yet, I've always wanted to do an inspirational post inspired on a song, and I'll do it tonight as a retribution to this compilation.

Like you guys know it, BBB at its most original.

Thanks a lot, I'm flattered. And look forward to BBB - Resist

BBB
 

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Re: Wow

Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
I didn't expect such an honor from my dear brothers.

Well, as I don't have material for my new series yet, I've always wanted to do an inspirational post inspired on a song, and I'll do it tonight as a retribution to this compilation.

Like you guys know it, BBB at its most original.

Thanks a lot, I'm flattered. And look forward to BBB - Resist

BBB
Haha, surprise! As far as another series...Great, can't wait for it! Keep up the good work man and get on AIM soon.
 

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Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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