"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Look Busy?

inzone50

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When your girl asks you what are you doing or what are you up to? ...and you aren't going to hang out that day...

And you have been doing jack **** and have no plans....what do you say?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sadao

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i prefer the dodgy responses such as "oh you know, this and that, wherever the tide takes me."
 

Sadao

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inzone50 said:
ya, i'm tired of saying nothing....
never say that, i can't even remember the last time i said "nothing, sitting at home"
 

inzone50

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ya, it slipped up! i'm hitting my head the desk now...haha

i said my friends were busy 2night so its not all that bad.

i usually go around it and ask what she is doing or make comments.... or say watching some **** on tv now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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inzone50

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Its summer....

i'm done high school. i work in during the week. my friends work when i have time off. so i don't get out much.
 

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gym, beach, sports, martial arts, any sort of class. All of those are within your grasp, i'm sure you can find something better than watching daytime tv.
 

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Say you are spanking the monkey to some internet porn. She won't ask that question again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tha Realnezz

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Yes.

You want to stay busy really,enjoy life.But hey if you're homebody(I lean towards that myself) then do so..
 

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inzone50 said:
..And you have been doing jack **** and have no plans....what do you say?
"Nothing, come over..."

Don't complicate things.
 
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