Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Look b!tch, I don't want to choke you, ok?

YawataNoKami

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just because i'm a professor at a college with an under performing class out of any one given semester doesn't automatically mean that all students in the country are idiots who are too dumb to learn or succeed in their studies.
California , "yes means yes law" , New York , a guy dumb a stupid bytch , she did not like it accused him of rape and end up carrying a mattress around. And I can/should keep going , but do your own research.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You tie up the masochist. They say "beat me" you say"no" and walk out of the room. That's how you can be a real sadist.
 

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You tie up the masochist. They say "beat me" you say"no" and walk out of the room. That's how you can be a real sadist.
Good one! By the way can you pull up your pants a little bit, I don't want to look at guys' crotches when I log on here.
 

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I love doing this. I dont actually choke the girl, but girls love pressure against the base of their neck or near their collar bone. Just enough so that they feel dominated...but not actually pressuring their windpipe hard.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I do the exact same thing Jaylan. Just put the hand there; it's a great way to start if you're unsure if she'll like it. But point is, I like the idea and the OP does not.

Anyway - I HATE it if a girl tells me what to do too much. Like, I was starting to undress her on the couch and she's saying "Wait, we should move to the bed!" in a very irritating way. What the hell is wrong with the couch? Girl, I'm trying to be turned on and you're not helping! If you want something then I'll let you take the lead for a minute and you put the work in yourself! But don't just lie there like a fish and ask stuff and expect me to do it!
 

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I do the exact same thing Jaylan. Just put the hand there; it's a great way to start if you're unsure if she'll like it. But point is, I like the idea and the OP does not.

Anyway - I HATE it if a girl tells me what to do too much. Like, I was starting to undress her on the couch and she's saying "Wait, we should move to the bed!" in a very irritating way. What the hell is wrong with the couch? Girl, I'm trying to be turned on and you're not helping! If you want something then I'll let you take the lead for a minute and you put the work in yourself! But don't just lie there like a fish and ask stuff and expect me to do it!
For me the best way is:
all your weight on top of her
hand covering her mouth/nose
in and up , wash an repeat
Usually , by doing this , take very little time to make her come.
 

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California , "yes means yes law" , New York , a guy dumb a stupid bytch , she did not like it accused him of rape and end up carrying a mattress around. And I can/should keep going , but do your own research.
You're mistaken if you think I care about the argument you're making, instead, I care more about the fact that your reasoning is fallacious. You're using a biased sample to make a sweeping generalization.

As for the OP, I'm in agreement; I don't understand the obsession with choking and the like. Not because of the possibility of "false rape accusations" but because it's not just something I'm into. The issue is, I find more and more women are expecting all this "fifty shades of grey"-tier physical abuse and dominance. Kind of annoying.
 
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