"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Look b!tch, I don't want to choke you, ok?

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I am so sick of women asking for this. Every girl I meet seems to be into it. And I am totally not. The effort I have to put into worrying about doing it too much, or just leaving incriminating bruises, is a big turn-off for me.

Every girl says she is submissive. And then they'll start making demands about what they like, and prohibitions on what they don't like. I'm always thinking, obviously you don't understand what submissive means. It means you like what I like. Subs don't make demands.

One girl tonight told me she likes to be told to shut up. I thought that was intriguing. I look forward to working the sentence "shut up, b!tch" into bedroom conversation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am with you, no freakin thanks.. This choking garbage could easily be a mans free ticket to domestic battery charges... Like you say, bruises.... or worse.. I don't even like leaving hickies anymore. she could even use that if she wakes up no longer liking you..
 

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Tell her "STFU. I'll do whatever the hell I want to you."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't get why you're all so worried about false rape accusations. Probably 1 in 100,000 men have experienced it in their time.
 

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I don't get why you're all so worried about false rape accusations. Probably 1 in 100,000 men have experienced it in their time.
Nope............ you are a troll or a woman. False rape/child abuse/domestic violence against men are rampant in this country. Spend 3 or 4 days in any court house and you'll see.
 

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Nope............ you are a troll or a woman. False rape/child abuse/domestic violence against men are rampant in this country. Spend 3 or 4 days in any court house and you'll see.
Maybe if you spend your time with unstable Americans.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Actually I spend years working at the Family Court Division of the Miami-Dade County.
just because i'm a professor at a college with an under performing class out of any one given semester doesn't automatically mean that all students in the country are idiots who are too dumb to learn or succeed in their studies.
 

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I am so sick of women asking for this. Every girl I meet seems to be into it. And I am totally not. The effort I have to put into worrying about doing it too much, or just leaving incriminating bruises, is a big turn-off for me.

Every girl says she is submissive. And then they'll start making demands about what they like, and prohibitions on what they don't like. I'm always thinking, obviously you don't understand what submissive means. It means you like what I like. Subs don't make demands.

One girl tonight told me she likes to be told to shut up. I thought that was intriguing. I look forward to working the sentence "shut up, b!tch" into bedroom conversation.
You must be a chauvinist...the modern girl knows what she wants and she won't hesitate to speak out her mind. You better keep up boy
 

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Every girl says she is submissive. And then they'll start making demands about what they like, and prohibitions on what they don't like. I'm always thinking, obviously you don't understand what submissive means. It means you like what I like. Subs don't make demands.
OP unofrtunately or not, being a sub does not mean this is how they do or should act.
In fact the submissive has the 'power', as it is they who sets the hard and soft limits for what play will take place. Also remember that male/female submissives are split pretty evenly, aprox 50/50 actually. A female submissive can be one of the most demanding creatures on this earth!
As far as the choking thing goes, its just a popular fad at the moment. I think at the basis of this desire for some females, is the entire dominance thing. Women want to be dominated. Just on their terms, in some instances. Not doing what they demand is fine. Doing it because you feel forced to, is no different to the typical woman/victim man/predator BS that many feminazis preach.

I do what I want. If she's up for it fine. If not I'll find someone who is :)
 

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@YawataNoKami
Good response. I would still argue it's not as common as people think. Certainly I don't know anyone its happened to nor have I heard of it happening to anyone. I would say though, its probably more common in America. You guys have a lot more social issues than other developed countries.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't understand why this "choking fantasy" is so accepted by women but if a dude has a foot/shoe fetish (or ANY fetish for that matter) it's considered "too freaky" for most women.
 

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I don't understand why this "choking fantasy" is so accepted by women but if a dude has a foot/shoe fetish (or ANY fetish for that matter) it's considered "too freaky" for most women.
It depends on the woman you meet and how you approach it. You'd be surprised.
 

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I am so sick of women asking for this. Every girl I meet seems to be into it. And I am totally not. The effort I have to put into worrying about doing it too much, or just leaving incriminating bruises, is a big turn-off for me.

Every girl says she is submissive. And then they'll start making demands about what they like, and prohibitions on what they don't like. I'm always thinking, obviously you don't understand what submissive means. It means you like what I like. Subs don't make demands.

One girl tonight told me she likes to be told to shut up. I thought that was intriguing. I look forward to working the sentence "shut up, b!tch" into bedroom conversation.
Just for this, I'm gonna put this on my bucket list of "what to do to a biatch" for the new year...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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