Look at what women do for you

[usernamedox11]

Stop trying to prove yourself to women; let them prove themselves to you.

I had been dating a very attractive, tall blonde the last 2 weeks. Hung out with her 4 times. She spent a night with me.

When I would go out with her, guys would check her out all over the place, girls would see me with her and in return stare and smile at me just because I was with her.

Thing is, the girls looks is ALL she had going for her. No interesting conversation. No real job. Lives on the couch of her friend's apt. Wasn't thankful for the dinner I got her. Wasn't all that exciting in bed.

To her credit, she did not play games and replied to my texts very quickly and was very easy to get a hold of. She also basically told me after 2 dates she wanted to be my girlfriend and that she liked me a lot.

A lot of guys here might be like "omg this is my opportunity to score a hot girl and have guys be jealous of me." I took a step back and realized this girl brought nothing to my life except possibly someone I would be stuck taking care of as she has no career prospects going for, and I broke it off with her.

Don't prove yourselves to girls...see if the girls you date bring a positive gain to your life. Sure, it was cool having guys envious of me and girls checking me out just cause I was with her, but committing to someone just for that just wasn't worth it, on top of her not being good in bed and generally being a dull person. I want to deal with interesting girls that have stuff going on for them, on top of them being attractive.

 

[GS750]

Good for you. 9/10 guys would've kept her around just because she was nice to look at. If there is no interesting conversation I lose interest very quickly which is why I'll take a cute bookworm type over a knockout with a pea brain any day. Not to mention, if this chick has no job prospects and no real residence then of course she is looking for a BF. A month would go by and she'd leeching off you. Not to worry, there's a sucker born every minute and she lock one down soon enough. And you'll find someone worth your time.

 

[om1xr]

I stopped investing I'm boring lifeless hot girls a long time ago.

a girl who brings no value to the table and add nothing to your life ain't worth it. life is too short to be bored by boring people

 

[El Payaso]

Good job.

 

[Desdinova]

I try to look at what the woman brings to the table. Now, when I think of this, I don't think of what she brings to the table for when we move in together. Fvck that. What matters is what she brings to the table while we're dating.

My current gf has her own apartment, has a decent job, and has her own car. In other words, I don't have to worry about her needing a place to stay if something happens, I don't have to worry about her not eating because she's broke, and if I'm sick or my jeep breaks down, I have someone to drive me. On top of that, she takes care of me when I'm sick, she doesn't want to have more kids (she already has one), she fvcks pretty good, rubs my back, and cooks me dinner. This is exactly what I want in my life right now.

Tenacity always preaches that women are only good for companionship and sex. He's right. The way I see it, if I can get a bit extra out of her, I'm doing great.

A woman who doesn't have her life together is only going to be a burden. I have enough 5hit to worry about in my own life, so why do I need her 5hit on top of mine?

Looks don't matter as much when you seek out a woman who should be adding happiness to your life. All that good 5hit she does for you will make up the slight drop on the looks scale. Just make sure you're not repulsed by her looks, and you won't have a problem keeping her around.

 

[NSX-R]

I would had accept her as my gf only for the social status.She would be used only for this reason. It seems very cold but having a beautifull woman by your side seems you are a guy with high value.
If i want some sex i would get other girls to fck, always secretly.