"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh man, I feel so mad and disappointed in myself. Today I had the biggest opportunity to talk to this girl and get her digits, but I wussed out. Here's the story.
It was after school when I was about to go home. I waited for the bus at the bus station and this girl gets there too a couple of minutes later. I've seen her before and I think she has noticed me, but that was before I knew about "the game" and before I had applied some of the self improving techniques such as body language and similar stuff, and I can assure you, I've got the body language down. Since I learned about it the girls from school that previously hadn't noticed me notice me.
Alright, this girl was fine and had the kind of face I liked and her body was banging. Oh, and by the way, here where I live it's snowing a lot and it's freaking cold. At first she doesn't do anything and just stands there besides me, about 2 meters away. Then she started to walk around in front of me. She went to the left and right and stopped right in front of me, with her back at me, and took a couple of steps back, the she repeated the procedures.
It really looked like she wanted me to start talking to her, but I didn't have the balls to approach her, and I wanted to so f-ing bad. I even had a excellent opening line, "Is it working?", then she'd probably replied "what?", then I'd say "Walking around in circles in front me to get yourself warm". But man, I feel so disappointed and I'm so mad at myself. I can't believe than after all this time I've studied this stuff and learnt it, I don't use it.
What are some of the things that you guys did when you applied the techniques when you all begun approaching? What made you approach the girl even when you didn't have the balls to do it?
And how did you make yourself feel better after a missed "golden" opportunity?
I'd really appreciate it if you'd come with advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Kpocalypse
What are some of the things that you guys did when you applied the techniques when you all begun approaching?
You don't apply techniques like a little scientific formula. You make the girl smile, make her feel good about herself, and interest her. You'll get the digits no matter what.

What made you approach the girl even when you didn't have the balls to do it?
I don't look at it like a challenge, I look at it as just another thing I do. Talking to women is what I do in my spare time.

I'd suggest giving your friend $100 and tell him not to give it back to you until get at least 3 numbers.

And how did you make yourself feel better after a missed "golden" opportunity?
Nothing. Analyze for about 5 minutes waht you could ahve done different, figure out the key problem, and focus on that. Everything falls into place. If you're stuck on it, go do something to take your mind off it. I personally go driving if I'm stressed.
 

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Originally posted by Kpocalypse

And how did you make yourself feel better after a missed "golden" opportunity?
This missed opportunitys only made me more ambitious! Thats how it affected me in the long run.

In the short run, I just got drunk and had a good time :D
 

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You don't need some bullsh*t "witty" line. You could say something as complacated and well-thought out as this: "Hey whats up?" or if it's really cold "it's a bit cool out here huh?" Once you say anything pretty much the conversation can go wherever you want it to my boy... :rock:
 

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Re: Re: Look at this post

I'd suggest giving your friend $100 and tell him not to give it back to you until get at least 3 numbers.
I love this, its a pretty brilliant idea, definately gotta try it, just gotta find a way to get $100.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if i gave any of my friends $100...
itd be more like burning $100 in front of my eyes. they'd probably go buy a bunch fo weed and smoke all night. Or liqour. Or Redskins tickets.
hahaha, oh well.
Dont' worry about missing oppertunities. This process is a stepping stone. You learn from your mistakes and move on. Thas just how it is. In the end though bro, you'll be practically flawless.
now instead of being mad u missed an oppertunity, this should motivate you to take that step adn approach next time.

Heres one thing to keep in mind curign cold approaches: If you **** up, so what? You'll NEVER see the girl again in your life unless you choose to.
You don't do everything perfect the first time around. :)
 

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Thanks for replying guys, really appreciate it.
 
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