"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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j.619

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Holy sh*t. Thank you for posting this. This is exactly why POF is good for nothing more than getting some tail or practicing game on a lesser catch. Can't lie, i'm on there, and meet up with women a few times a month (so, pretty regularly). It's never more than drinks and a f*ck sesh and they generally don't get calls back.

These poor f*ckers must be insecure and beta as f*ck to meet a damaged woman (most of these broads are single moms with multiple kids) on a trashy free dating site and end up marrying them. Have some self-respect, fellas. I read a few of the testimonials and all I can think to do is laugh.
 

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To be fair and balanced, not all of those success photos have fat girls in them.

Not saying POF is the way to go, just saying you aren't really representing the big picture.
 

Zarky

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Echoes said:
To be fair and balanced, not all of those success photos have fat girls in them.
That's true, only most of 'em ;)

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=56127

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=86262

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=46339

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=29484

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=49032

I'm not exactly having to search too hard to find these... :eek:


These poor f*ckers must be insecure and beta as f*ck to meet a damaged woman (most of these broads are single moms with multiple kids) on a trashy free dating site and end up marrying them.
I truly cannot fathom the complete lack of success that would drive a man to that. I pray I never do.
 

HowardHughesDicaprio

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Most of those couples except for 1st and 4th seem fairly looks matched IMO.

Face it, most of the 8s and up on those sites are likely fake profiles and at best hot girls looking for validation rather than dates.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zarky

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HowardHughesDicaprio said:
Most of those couples except for 1st and 4th seem fairly looks matched IMO.
That's fair for dating.. however, men who MARRY a looks-matched woman are failures. Since marriage usually benefits women more than men, men usually demand compensation by marrying "up" with regard to beauty.

Men are able to pump and dump chicks who are below them in attractiveness, have relationships with women who are looks-matched, and marry chicks who are above them in attractiveness.
 

j.619

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Zarky said:
Men are able to pump and dump chicks who are below them in attractiveness, have relationships with women who are looks-matched, and marry chicks who are above them in attractiveness.
I haven't generally thought of it like this, but this logic is flawless.
 

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^^^ It's a general rule and often overshadowed by other attributes like money, status, etc. But all other things being equal it's pretty accurate.
 

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Lets be real here. From most of the pics I see, dudes are with chicks within their league. Id say, save for maybe one or two guys, all the guys in those photos are just as big as the women they are with. And they have similar attractiveness levels.

Lmao @ the guy in the weird chainmail and knight outfit though.
 

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Echoes said:
To be fair and balanced, not all of those success photos have fat girls in them.

Not saying POF is the way to go, just saying you aren't really representing the big picture.
Are you fvckin' blind? HAHAHA

Every chick posted is either fat, chunky, pudgy, whatever. Not one is hot or is in average weight. Every dude is a total AFC looking guy who got a fat woman.

POF is for ugly people to match with equally ugly people for relationships. The above average women are there for hook ups and there aren't very many of them on there anymore.


Jaylan said:
Lets be real here. From most of the pics I see, dudes are with chicks within their league. Id say, save for maybe one or two guys, all the guys in those photos are just as big as the women they are with. And they have similar attractiveness levels.

Lmao @ the guy in the weird chainmail and knight outfit though.

I agree totally. The best one is the last photo with the dude with the 70's style hair cut kissing the fatty HAHAHA


Zarky said:
That's fair for dating.. however, men who MARRY a looks-matched woman are failures. Since marriage usually benefits women more than men, men usually demand compensation by marrying "up" with regard to beauty.
Almost every man I see must be a failure when he is married to an equally ugly looking wife.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ronaldo7

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Those things are disgusting. Where are the Weight Watchers when you need them?

You'd have to truly hate yourself, have incredibly low self-esteem and be a FAGGOT to even remotely look at those things with positive eyes.
 

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LOL!!!!! "Look at these beautiful POF couples" hahahahha!! Fvking LOLing right now..
 

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Great Googly Moogly!

I'm never eating again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Night-hawk

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Whoah, I'd say lucky guys, but I know luck had nothing to do with it. Pure game.
 
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Jaylan said:
Lets be real here. From most of the pics I see, dudes are with chicks within their league. Id say, save for maybe one or two guys, all the guys in those photos are just as big as the women they are with. And they have similar attractiveness levels.
Agreed. I'm not going to knock another man's catch. If he's happy with a land whale or a chick with a mullet then good for him.

Zarky said:
That's fair for dating.. however, men who MARRY a looks-matched woman are failures. Since marriage usually benefits women more than men, men usually demand compensation by marrying "up" with regard to beauty.

Men are able to pump and dump chicks who are below them in attractiveness, have relationships with women who are looks-matched, and marry chicks who are above them in attractiveness.
It seems like a good deal at first but it's detrimental in the long run, especially for dudes who don't even know how to play the game in the first place. If a man can't keep his wife in line then he's screwed. A chick who's above his league will be much harder to keep in check.
 
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As long as both parties are happy, I'm not the one to judge.

Of all people, I'm surprised that Zarky was the one to post this.
 

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Holy ****. I'm laughing my ass off right now. What would compel a guy to want to marry such a disgusting filthy creature like that? Have some self respect man. This motivates me even more to study game and become better at it. I don't want to end up like these poor guys.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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