backseatjuan
Banned
Fat boy is uncomfortable and bored. Zero eye contact, he's not an alpha. What's your take on his body language?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Look at Kim's body language
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Dudes in that position have historically been ultra paranoid.
logicallefty
Moderator
This right here. I love doing this to people I first meet when they are trying to size me up. Don’t know if you guys have noticed but psychological games are at core part of how the world runs now. Case in point. 10 years ago had you heard of the term gaslighting? Now it’s everywhere. In Kim’s case, even if he is weak he’s got plenty of people behind him who are not and are ready to fight his battles.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Putin's is worse. His eyes are downcast, his head tilted off to the side in a submissive fashion. He's slumped in his chair. His dominant right hand covering his private parts. Plus, he's losing his hair. Must be beta.
Why bother? It's too much effort. Even sociopaths don't even have to think about this. They are naturally manipulative. I'm naturally at ease with myself, no games required. Time to step up your game.
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Why bother? It's too much effort. Even sociopaths don't even have to think about this. They are naturally manipulative. I'm naturally at ease with myself, no games required. Time to step up your game.
logicallefty
Moderator
Where do you live? I live in Illinois, a state that’s ran by sociopaths and con artists. It’s not just at the Government level here. It’s everywhere. You gotta play the games here or you loose.
I've visited chicago a bunch of times. Visited friends there, stayed for business trips, stayovers for delayed flights. I've visited Evanston as well. A couple of smaller towns in Illinois I don't recall the names of.
The people seem friendly and boring. More boring than friendly. A lot of people don't smile. It doesn't strike me as a fun city to live in even though it's one of the largest in the US. It used to be a big sports town, but the bulls suck now, the bears aren't doing much. The cubbies have had some success. I don't follow hockey.
I wouldn't mind learning more about chicago, but I've never had a great time there. The train system's not bad.
logicallefty
Moderator
Chicago is a fun city to play in, but not to work in. Have you ever met people who in real life who were as corrupt at the core as Hillary Clinton? I’ve met hundreds.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everybody who negotiate deals knows the game play of body language.
Body language gives out a "tell". Every deal maker will read a "tell" but would be hard pressed to know which is true or which is faked, so they create feigned tells to see the opposite reaction.
A good poker player is a good example of how a man uses body language to influence another into putting more money on the table or withdrawing from it thus making the player win by default - even when he actually has nothing to show.
Body language gives out a "tell". Every deal maker will read a "tell" but would be hard pressed to know which is true or which is faked, so they create feigned tells to see the opposite reaction.
A good poker player is a good example of how a man uses body language to influence another into putting more money on the table or withdrawing from it thus making the player win by default - even when he actually has nothing to show.
You clearly don't understand how evil hillary clinton is. Nor that there are many people far worse.
logicallefty
Moderator
Ah, but I do. What state do you live in, and how old are you?
It's far worse than what's portrayed in the media. You can find more revealing sources easily enough. The problem is you'll wish you had not. What do you think is the worst she has ever done?
logicallefty
Moderator
You didn't answer my questions. But at least you don't like Hillary either so you can't be too bad.
Me. I'm 45 years old. I am a Police officer, with 3.5 years in Cybercrimes. I had access to the dark web, the federal system for nailing child porn preditors, and systems in the FBI and other Federal agencies that yes I wish I had never seen. I live and work in Illinois, one of the most corrupt states in the USA. I once sued my current employer with NO LAWYER, won, and got moved out from under a sociopathic boss who was making my life he||. I once married a sociopathic bigamist who had two other husbands in two other States. Had my marriage annulled. This is just the tip of the ice berg.
So yeah, I've seen some stuff too. And I ask you again, what State do you live in, and how old are you?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm in an area which is at least as corrupt. But still there is far worse. Realms of trafficking which rank and file police have no access to which are completely protected. It's upsetting and even disturbing to even talk about it. However, documentation of these activities is readily available. Hillary is not a top dog. Not even close. She is a puppet. Or at least she was. I don't know what she is now. Just a soulless demon which can barely be propped up at this point.
The main difficulty is not censorship, but the fact that even reading a small portion of it can disturb you for the rest of your life.
logicallefty
Moderator
No you are right Hillary is not the worst, but she is one of the most famous of the corrupt people. After I got grounded up in the meat grinder by a couple of sociopaths, I studied them and learned how to protect myself. Where I live, you have to. But in other States I have friends like Texas and Tennessee, only the friends there who first lived in Illinois understand it. The others tell me I am full of sh|t in knowing how to profile these people, just like you did. Which is why I asked you where you live and how old you are. So I could better understand your point of view, just like I do my friends who live in States that are 1000x better than Illinois and don't deal with sociopaths and bad apples on a daily basis like I do.
Police officers are in a different situation, admittedly. I'm 28, that's in my profile, but yes, I am used to corruption. I see it everywhere. Everything in society is corrupt. That's just the way it is. Corruption, immorality, sin, evil are normal now. I'm really not sure what you're getting at anymore. It's more of a weird 'I've seen more evil than you have' d1ckwaving contest which is a little boring. It's not a productive conversation to be having.
logicallefty
Moderator
Respectfully sir, I made a post. And you took it down the path of competition. And I agree it’s not a productive conversation. But I’m not gonna sit here and listen to you tell me what I have and haven’t seen or what I can and cannot do. Especially now that I see that ur just a kid to me. Anyway, Carry-on.
backseatjuan
Banned
@logicallefty he's from Kansas
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.