"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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look at how stupid i am

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I used to be EXTREMELY shy also, am sooo shy to the point girls form in group and teaste me lol. It was sad... Belgium_Freak PM me you're msn if you have 1. Am really intrested to talk to you about working out, you have the body am looking to get...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Focken a bro, you are positively STACKED. Just SLICED like a mofo'. Wow! :eek:



I agree with the one poster who said that you are ironically intimidating women by being so 'perfect' on the outside. You have a good looking face, and an even more incredible body. You said that you used to be an 'ugly (fat) duckling', but you've poured your sweat and tears into becoming a stud. Ironically now that you've achieved your goals the very women you've been trying to attract are terrified of you. You should either try to hit on absolutely *gorgeous* girls, because they are less likely to be intimidated by your looks.



You remind me of the Swedish male model Marcus Schenkenberg. A lot of the top female models (like Naomi Campbell) have claimed that they are intimidated by Schenkenberg (despite their being world-class beauties in their own right) because he is so handsome (facially), with a greek god-like body.
 

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Hahahaha

Jeez man. Talk about feminization of society.

1) Look at them in the eye
2) Touch them
3) Ask them out
4) Try kissing them after the date
5) Hug, and put your hand on their crotch after the date
6) Go on to the next girl if one of the above is rejected
7) If rejected, try again same step next time

You'll get laid before you approach 10 girls
 

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Hahahaha

Jeez man. Talk about feminization of society.

1) Look at them in the eye
2) Touch them
3) Ask them out
4) Try kissing them after the date
5) Hug, and put your hand on their crotch after the date
6) Go on to the next girl if one of the above is rejected
7) If rejected, try again same step next time

You'll get laid before you approach 10 girls

Ice Cold,

Who are you laughing at? Ice Cold you are a moron for your reply. If it were that easy he would not be here. You have nearly 1500 posts and you have nothing better to start off with that "Hahaha". Are you laughing at his misfortune? I hope not.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn...

talk about Mr Chisles...

I, like Mr Deboinaire, would like to know your exercise/diet plan that got the body you currently possess....but truthfully that body is not in everybody's grasp...some dudes naturally cant possess that body...sucks for those guys...heh...neway....instead of DJ tips...FITNESS TIPS PLEASE!!!

Mr Meff
 

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I'd hit it.
 

Ice Cold

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Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
Ice Cold,

Who are you laughing at?

About the limitless insecurity some people have.

Ice Cold you are a moron for your reply.
I know. I have my mom to remind me of that.

If it were that easy he would not be here.
Ok, how does that make me a moron?

You have nearly 1500 posts and you have nothing better to start off with that "Hahaha".
Amount of posts doesn't correlate with maturity, intelligence etc... ;)

Are you laughing at his misfortune?
Not his in particular, but at the general ability of people to be insecure.
I hope not.
Hope is the one to die last...

Now let's look at this constructively. I expressed my amusement and surprize at the situation through "hahaha" AND SUGGESTED A PLAN OF ACTION.

You just called me a moron.

Whose post is gonna help him more?
 

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I think I see the issue here as I too used to be fat, it killed my self-esteem, deprived me of experience with women and caused me to become very shy and sensitive. I never felt comfortable with myself and every time a woman showed interest in me, I used to think she was making fun of me.

I'm guessing that being fat was your motivation for working out and has made you a perfectionist. Obviously, you take a lot of pride in your looks now, but maybe your shyness is left over from the past.

Ross Jeffries explains this very well. He explains that people give themselves identities based on their past. If you used to be shy, you will accept yourself as a shy person and fit all your behaviour into this identity.

i.e. A shy person can't talk to women, therefore, if you believe you are a shy person, you also believe that you can't talk to women.

The problem is, when shy people act shy, they say things like "this is who I am" and accept this is how they should act.

Now tell yourself you are a confident person and every time you act shy, tell yourself "this is not who I am" and leave your shy identity in the past.
 

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Hey belgiumboy, my anus is open to you. As they say in France, "Let us have le gay sex!"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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are you guys dj's or a bunch of homos, lol...

:eek: :p
 

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Hi Belgium Freak. Why don't you post a thread on the health and fitness forum outlining your routine/diet etc. I am sure it would be much appreciated . If you put half as much effort into conquering shyness as you do with the weights, you will be surrounded by girls in no time.

Ice Cold's advice-while crude, is very good. In the end just do it! smile at a girl and if you get a smile back, say hello, introduce yourself, ask her a few questions about herself, get her number and let her do the rest. If like me you don't like talking to strangers do something like dancing, church, charity work, mixed sports or something where you come into contact with girls in a neutral setting. Then it is easy to say hello, how are you enjoying the class? or something banal
 

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Mr. debionaire, that last advice made me laugh :D

I just received a good article from undesputable and i'm gonna give it a try..No, i'm gonna DO it!

anywayz, about shaping your body... it actually depends on two things : working out AND eating correct. If you don't have a LOT of time (hey, who does right ?) you could try the body for life program. Wich is one day of weight training (45 mins.), next day interval cardio (20 mins)... If you'r serious about changing your appearance i strongly suggest this book (body for life - author : bill philips). It explains how to workout and what foods are good, really simple and it's written for beginners.

As far as what works :

Creatine : this is a VERY powerfull supplement for gaining lean mass, it volumizes muscle cells. If you want to gain mass fast, this is really a MUST. You'll notice much harder pumps after a few days, you'll see yourself grow fast (wich gets you motivated even more). PS: this is not an anabolic for those of you who don't have a clue ;)

Ephedrine HCL + Caffeïne : very effective for raisng the metabolism, and suppressing appetite. Ephedra is banned, but you can still get ephedrine HCL (vasopro) from

here for about 7$ a bottle, don't forget to add caffeïne to your order if you'r planning to buy this.

There are no secrets really, just be consistent and you'll get where you wanna go.

Hey ice_cold, i'm not a really big fan of tough love but i appreciate what you'r trying to do.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Hey belgiumboy, my anus is open to you. As they say in France, "Let us have le gay sex!"
whats gay about this sex....i thought you were a women, oh and i see youre a fan of anal..... hey belgium boy this girl is already coming on to you....
 

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I think Belgum boy is a troll. I know guys who are as jacked as him. They never have to approach. All they have to do is go to a bar and stand there. The girls will flock to them. Oh, and personality means nothing. Girls are as shallow as guys when it comes to looks. The girls will jump on a hot guy just to be seen with them.

GO AWAY TROLL!!!! and take your fake pictures with you
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001052.html

Read the whole thread, especially pook's second response

props on your body man. if you have the mental strength to get a body like that, you have the will power for anything, including this small challenge.

i used to be a really really shy piece of sh!t
i'm not now -well, a little bit with strangers

don't take yourself so seriously! fingers and pook and sammo have all emphasised this so much. (read pook's second response to that thread above; fingers's weapons of mass seduction (good for everything); http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34519;

especially http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33903
 

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Originally posted by mrbrooklyn
I think Belgum boy is a troll. I know guys who are as jacked as him. They never have to approach. All they have to do is go to a bar and stand there. The girls will flock to them. Oh, and personality means nothing. Girls are as shallow as guys when it comes to looks. The girls will jump on a hot guy just to be seen with them.

GO AWAY TROLL!!!! and take your fake pictures with you
nuff said :D



by the way, i'm not blaming you because that's what anyone would think in this situation. But i'm changing, today i talked to this girl that used the bike right next to me lol, i guess that's a step in the good way ;)
 

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Originally posted by gav
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001052.html

Read the whole thread, especially pook's second response

props on your body man. if you have the mental strength to get a body like that, you have the will power for anything, including this small challenge.

i used to be a really really shy piece of sh!t
i'm not now -well, a little bit with strangers

don't take yourself so seriously! fingers and pook and sammo have all emphasised this so much. (read pook's second response to that thread above; fingers's weapons of mass seduction (good for everything); http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=34519;


especially http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33903
wow this one is REALLY good, i'm gonna print that right away
 

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Praat je Vlaams of Frans?

Originally posted by Belgium_Freak
wow this one is REALLY good, i'm gonna print that right away
Since you're already hooked up with the Fingers and Pook material. Now its your turn to give some advice. How in the fuck did you get a sixpack like that and biceps like that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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