"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Look at "flakes" as a chick doing you a favor..IF..

HumbleNinja

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Dudes need to look at a chick who flakes on them as doing them a favor...IF you have a life that doesn't revolve around pvssy let alone ONE chick. (Meaning other things or more important things to do just in case.) Who needs let alone should care about one chick who flakes? Really?

But if you notice a pattern of chicks more consistantly flaking on you, you really need to find out what you could be doing wrong or why they seem to be flaking on YOU more often than most dudes.

It ain't always the chicks in that case. Like it or not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy

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If you are butthurt when a girl flakes, it's YOUR fault for not having options. End of story.
 

VladPatton

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Yeah but some Jedi Knight SoSuaver is gonna come in and argue that you need to do the numbers game: 500 rejections for one date! Who's right, who's wrong? What's real? What's virtual? Are we really inside of a video game is where I'm getting at... :confused:
 
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