"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Longevity requires both strength and endurance

Ricky

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Alot of people advocate what Peter Attia has talked about in his book and podcast. Essentially Peter Attia has a goal to be in the top percentiles for strength as well as endurance for his age group because both seem to be predictive of longevity. This essay will discuss it briefly. This is probably a review for most of you.


Strength and Longevity:

  • Numerous studies have shown that maintaining or increasing muscle strength is associated with several health benefits, including improved longevity.
  • Sarcopenia, the age-related loss of muscle mass and strength, has been linked to a higher risk of disability, falls, and mortality.
  • Resistance training, which improves muscle strength, can help counteract the loss of muscle mass and functional decline associated with aging.


Cardiovascular Fitness (VO2 max) and Longevity:

  • Cardiorespiratory fitness, often measured by VO2 max (the maximum amount of oxygen a person can use during intense exercise), has consistently been associated with longevity.
  • Individuals with higher cardiorespiratory fitness tend to have a lower risk of cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, and all-cause mortality.
  • Regular aerobic exercise, such as running, cycling, and swimming, is an effective way to improve VO2 max and, in turn, enhance cardiovascular fitness.

I've seen studies where grip strength is a good predictor.

To be honest I like doing both.. some of my friends are more one trick ponies.. either running strictly or lifting. I guess we all need to find what we like.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Correlation isn't causation, not saying you are wrong but we just don't have enough information to understand why the longevity happens currently, could for example be due to regular fasting versus not
 

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I don't about you, but if I live long I certainly don't want to be bedridden for years, so getting good stenght and endurance and mobility will be helpfull
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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