"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Longevity requires both strength and endurance

Ricky

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Alot of people advocate what Peter Attia has talked about in his book and podcast. Essentially Peter Attia has a goal to be in the top percentiles for strength as well as endurance for his age group because both seem to be predictive of longevity. This essay will discuss it briefly. This is probably a review for most of you.


Strength and Longevity:

  • Numerous studies have shown that maintaining or increasing muscle strength is associated with several health benefits, including improved longevity.
  • Sarcopenia, the age-related loss of muscle mass and strength, has been linked to a higher risk of disability, falls, and mortality.
  • Resistance training, which improves muscle strength, can help counteract the loss of muscle mass and functional decline associated with aging.


Cardiovascular Fitness (VO2 max) and Longevity:

  • Cardiorespiratory fitness, often measured by VO2 max (the maximum amount of oxygen a person can use during intense exercise), has consistently been associated with longevity.
  • Individuals with higher cardiorespiratory fitness tend to have a lower risk of cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, and all-cause mortality.
  • Regular aerobic exercise, such as running, cycling, and swimming, is an effective way to improve VO2 max and, in turn, enhance cardiovascular fitness.

I've seen studies where grip strength is a good predictor.

To be honest I like doing both.. some of my friends are more one trick ponies.. either running strictly or lifting. I guess we all need to find what we like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Correlation isn't causation, not saying you are wrong but we just don't have enough information to understand why the longevity happens currently, could for example be due to regular fasting versus not
 

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I don't about you, but if I live long I certainly don't want to be bedridden for years, so getting good stenght and endurance and mobility will be helpfull
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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