“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Longest cold streak??

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What is the longest period of time that you have gone without getting laid? (If you havn't gotten pu$$y from at least 2 girls then there is no point in answering)

And what helped you break out of your slump?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alkali

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The first sixteen years of my life.

God, I hope I don't beat that record...
 

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Two and a half years, after divorcing from a seven year marriage. It was more about being bitter from my divorce than being in a slump, but I still had to relearn the fundamentals of dating, since I had been married for so long. Also it helped to learn that women want sex as much as men, but sex doesn't happen unless the guy takes initiative and makes it happen.
 

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I went almost eight [bitter] months after I ended a seven year relationship. It took a very persistent and patient girl to get me out of that particular funk.

That girl and I split up last week. I hope I won't be posting again in this thread in eight months with a new record...
 

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I've only had sex with three women. The first time I had to wait 28 years. I was a virgin for that long and it definitely was NOT by choice. My next partner was a year later at age 29. My latest partner was two years later at age 31.

I know what a dry spell is like lol.

Mike
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bible_Belt

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You say that it was not by choice, but there are a lot of easy, skanky women out there. Guys who get down about not getting laid are really upset about not getting laid by the women they want. The guys I know who get laid the easiest are the ones with the lowest standards. Seriously, for every guy who thinks he's a loser over not getting laid, there's a fat chick or a single mother who thinks the same thing about herself.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You say that it was not by choice, but there are a lot of easy, skanky women out there. Guys who get down about not getting laid are really upset about not getting laid by the women they want. The guys I know who get laid the easiest are the ones with the lowest standards. Seriously, for every guy who thinks he's a loser over not getting laid, there's a fat chick or a single mother who thinks the same thing about herself.
It's not always about high standards that keep guys from getting laid into their 20s. It isn't that simple. And yeah, I'd rather jerk off than have sex with a girl below my standards.
 
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My longest cold streak was 25 months! And it sucked too!

I broke out of it by making "getting laid" more of a priority. I would hit on a lot more girls at partys/clubs, spend a lot more time trying to set up dates, and spent more money than I normally would (new clothes and going to resturants).

The resturant is what did it for me. I took a girl out to a nice resturant on a Friday night, brought her home to my place to watch a movie, and BANG, cold streak was over! :)
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You say that it was not by choice, but there are a lot of easy, skanky women out there. Guys who get down about not getting laid are really upset about not getting laid by the women they want. The guys I know who get laid the easiest are the ones with the lowest standards. Seriously, for every guy who thinks he's a loser over not getting laid, there's a fat chick or a single mother who thinks the same thing about herself.
I understand what you are saying, but it isn't that simple. Even the biggest skanks can be picky about who they hook up with. They may hook up with a large number of guys, but it is usually a particular type of guy that they go after. I'm considered handsome, but more in the adorable nice guy sense. That's not the type of guy that skanks typically go after.

Your environment is another big factor. I'm from Connecticut where even fat chicks act like they are 10s and roll their eyes at me.

I'm not trying to whine and seek pity, I honestly just find it extremely difficult to get laid.
 

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First eighteen years of my life. In the past 7 years after that, 3 months has been my longest dry-spell period. Have had 3 of those 3months dry-spells though.

Guess that after 3 months nature kicks in and makes you work harder for it. Gunwitch-style!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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2 years, glad people are honest with their answers. It's been the longest ever.

Found out my biatch ex gf cheated on me 3 days after my mom passed away. You can imagine the issues I'm going through..:eek:
 

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Hmmm. Do escorts count as lays? If not then it's been about 3 years. If they do count then it's been 10 months.

If a guy is quiet and or shy he won't get laid even by easiest girls. Heck, years ago I was so WBAFC that I was dumped by a slutty fat girl before we had sex :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonJuan11 said:
29 years 1 month, 3 days, 4 hours, 24 min.
please tell me your kidding

Edit: your not kidding....man you need to really get working on that.
 

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eminence said:
please tell me your kidding

Edit: your not kidding....man you need to really get working on that.

how? it's at the point where you don't care anymore.

its back to the hunger analogy. You are so hungry and don't eat and eat and then you get to that point where you are not hungry anymore and lose your enthusiasm to eat.
 

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I went about eight months once.

My cold streak was broken when I stopped caring or trying to talk to people. Granted, I stopped trying after about six months, but it wasn't too much longer when the streak was over. When I waited for people to approach me (or in most cases, met random people through friends) I ended up meeting a friend of a friend at a bar who I just clicked with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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