"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want to say thank you to everyone hear for the info. they have contributed that I have been lucky enough to stumble past. I am a longtime reader of a lot of the posts but just decided to register and get involved.

Quick background. I am a pretty attractive young 20-something. Good education behind me, just took up a nice managerial job with a Fortune top 100 companies to work for company, meet people easily, and can click with anyone I choose to really get to know for the most part. I am fairly good with the women too. But no one is perfect. I used to be too ****y, so I have made an effort to steer away from that mindset. I can get women attracted and into me, I just seem to make the hotter women lose interest at some point. I believe I have been too available and instead of just living the best life possible, getting those b*tch butterflies when I want to approach a HB8+.

The past week I have been trying to grab some items for a mindset that I hope I can turn into natural tendencies before long. By making a short but strong list, I figured it was easiest to commit to memory. Here it is:
1. Be carefree
2. Be cool (emotions always under control)
3. Don't be afraid of anything (kind of goes with carefree)
4. When hitting it off with a girl, I am the prize. Don't tell her more than is needed (mystery.)

Pick me apart pros. I believe I was lucky enough to have a lot of the things behind me that a lot of gentleman wish they had. So, I want to take full advantage of be able to reach that full potential.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A couple views for this thread guys, anybody with some input. Some keys that they kept in their head at all times when first beginning. The big change that turned them around. Made them approach without any other thought.

I'm also trying to keep in mind to do things for the simple fact of doing them. Rather than planning the outcome.
 
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