"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want to say thank you to everyone hear for the info. they have contributed that I have been lucky enough to stumble past. I am a longtime reader of a lot of the posts but just decided to register and get involved.

Quick background. I am a pretty attractive young 20-something. Good education behind me, just took up a nice managerial job with a Fortune top 100 companies to work for company, meet people easily, and can click with anyone I choose to really get to know for the most part. I am fairly good with the women too. But no one is perfect. I used to be too ****y, so I have made an effort to steer away from that mindset. I can get women attracted and into me, I just seem to make the hotter women lose interest at some point. I believe I have been too available and instead of just living the best life possible, getting those b*tch butterflies when I want to approach a HB8+.

The past week I have been trying to grab some items for a mindset that I hope I can turn into natural tendencies before long. By making a short but strong list, I figured it was easiest to commit to memory. Here it is:
1. Be carefree
2. Be cool (emotions always under control)
3. Don't be afraid of anything (kind of goes with carefree)
4. When hitting it off with a girl, I am the prize. Don't tell her more than is needed (mystery.)

Pick me apart pros. I believe I was lucky enough to have a lot of the things behind me that a lot of gentleman wish they had. So, I want to take full advantage of be able to reach that full potential.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A couple views for this thread guys, anybody with some input. Some keys that they kept in their head at all times when first beginning. The big change that turned them around. Made them approach without any other thought.

I'm also trying to keep in mind to do things for the simple fact of doing them. Rather than planning the outcome.
 
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