"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STR8UP

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MikeYikes122 said:
It's like my Grandpa once told me. Treat em mean and you'll keep em keen. Treat em nice and you'll pay the price.
I wish my grandpa had given me that advice.

I bet I just earned myself a place on Iqqi's sh!t list. :crackup:
That would be quite a tragedy.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MikeYikes122 said:
It's like my Grandpa once told me. Treat em mean and you'll keep em keen. Treat em nice and you'll pay the price.

I bet I just earned myself a place on Iqqi's sh!t list. :crackup:
Well women who only seem to respond to being treated like sh!t, are the same as men who only respond to being treated like sh!t.

And that is why it is so obvious to me why men on this board are crying about being treated like sh!t! You are all more like the women you whine about than you would ever imagine! You are the easiest kind of men to game.

It is almost funny. But it is more sad.

Mikey, I don't have a sh!t list. But if you want to be on it, I can get rough with you... if that's how you like it. You may be one of the men I just described. :whistle:
 

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Thanks for all the great feedback guys. You pretty much reinforced what I already felt, but I guess I just needed to hear it one more time.

Thanks!
 

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JeeperCane said:
i really don't have anything to hide, maybe others can learn from my mistakes.

elaborate on what you mean by cluster b type? is that slang for just "stupid b1tch?" or is that really a DJ term?

Cluster B --- a subset of the personalty disorders in the DSM - a catalog of psychiatric diagnoses. Cluster B includes BPD, HPD, ASPD, and some others. Look up "Borderline Personality Disorder." There are even some threads here about it.
 
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