"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok. So this thread is serving as an introduction in addition to being a question. First of all, I have been trolling this site for about two weeks and have been reading the dj bible extensively. It really has opened my eyes and I have been working on getting rid of my AFC tendencies and implementing some of the DJ philosophy into my everyday life. I have already noticed a change in the way people act around me and can't wait to really start my journey into Djdom. It would really be awesome if some of the more experienced DJs could PM me with any info, tips or material I ought to know.:)

Second of all, I have been semi-gaming this girl, my friend's sister, for a little while (since right after I started reading) and while initially it was just an exercise to test myself, I kinda like her and was wondering what I should do with her. I'm positive she likes me, but she currently has a boyfriend. Any way this hasn't really been a problem till just recently. I was out with her last friday and she started acting really weird around me. I got kinda pissed and ended up leaving early.

So afterwards we're talking and she said she felt bad cuz she lied to her bf about going with me and I haven't talked to her since. Shes not a one-itis and I don't really want anything too serious with her since an LTR right into my beginning DJ training might screw up my game, but I was just wondering how to pursue this oppurtunity, if I should at all.

ps. sorry but I have no idea how to indent, the tab button doesn't work!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is your friend okay with it?

In my opinion, don't go for girls with bfs. There are plenty more girls you can take without screwing up another guy's relationship.
 
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I'm pretty sure he'd be all right with it. At any length i'd tell him before i did anything really serious with her.

Also I don't think they're that serious.
 
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hyphy101 said:
I'm pretty sure he'd be all right with it. At any length i'd tell him before i did anything really serious with her.

Also I don't think they're that serious.
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well in that case...sure go for it
it'll be great experience for you and you can test out/apply all the stuff you've been reading and see how it works.
 
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If it helps any, they're step-siblings, not sure that makes much of a dif, but just throwin' that out there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Triple T said:
In my opinion, don't go for girls with bfs. There are plenty more girls you can take without screwing up another guy's relationship.
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That advice completely ignores the fact that many of the most beautiful, high-valued women are already taken and the only way to get to them is to remove their chump BOREfriends from the picture.......

And why the fvck should you care about some random guys feelings or already established relationship (especially if he's not a friend to you). He just becomes a extra obstacle standing in the way of you achieving your goals and dreams.

Life is a competition (like a race), and if you keep worrying about other people's (your competition's) feelings, you're the one that won't get ahead!
 
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Good luck on your HYPHY MOVEMENT!!
 
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