Long time from the boards, now back with a question

[Dukester]

Hey guys. Been away for quite awhile, and I see that theres been some changes, a couple of the mods arent here anymore...

Still the same old shyt though, AFC guys asking AFC questions, and wanting AFC answers.... but that is beside the point.

Well, i'm not here to criticize, in fact i should probably help some of u boys out since i know wtf i'm doing. I've been so successful after coming to this sight way back when- it's amazing... but

even us successful DJ's have problems, and here is mine-

I've stolen girls from boyfriends before, and it was a piece of cake, this girl is a little different though.

She is a huge flirt (and I know some girls are like that), but she is constantly talking to me. We hang out after class, and have lunch n ****. Always got her smiling, and she is keeping the eye contact.

I know all the skills to DJ her, and that stuff, but that isnt the prob. The prob lies w/ her b/f. I know she has one, but she hasnt told me. She still acts sooo into me, and all my DJ skills are working to a tee. But i dont get why she hasnt mentioned the b/f. Maybe she is genuinely interested in me? But i figured that if she was having probs w/ him, she'd let me know (that's what the other girls have told me).

So i guess my question to all you "experienced" DJ's (and you know who you are) is:
What should i do about this girl-
should i leave it alone, or pursue?

if you guys want more info, just pm me, or im me on aim: wsuegrstudent

 

[Royal-tiger]

Take the short way ...

It all depends on what you want from this chick. If all you seek is physical pleasure, then you know what to do. Her not mentioning the boyfriend is simply a solid confirmation that she digs you. That said, the task to accomplish the sexual goal becomes super easy.

On the other hand, if you want her as a long-term material the boyfriend does come into the picture as well as her flirt nature.

I would advice the first way to go rather than the second one.

Welcome back!

 

[[look]aRhino]

Just throwing my advice in behind Royal Tiger's.

The fact that she hasn't mentioned him can only be good for you. Just go get what you want.

Rhino

 

[tmpgstx]

She's just testing the waters here. If you try more risky endeavors to get her, she may just mention the boyfriend at that time, but for now, she enjoys doing things with you.

I take it her bf doesn't go to the same campus or college at all? Because if he did, would have said something to her by now about her untold friend and you guys hanging out after class etc.

She is a big flirt? She could be trying to massage her ego a bit.

I would just ask her if she has a BF and if it is really solid or not, and then go from there, otherwise you're going on blind assumptions.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Quit playing her flirtatious mind games and ask her out directly - you'll get your answer!

 

[Dukester]

good advice guys! thanks

it's good to know that there's still some people on this board with brains! i thought that they died out when i left !!! hahahaha


thanks again guys- it helps