Long term relationship advice

[VladPatton]

Ultimately you'll do what you want, but I think this is just the beginning for her. Wait till she finds out about clubs, drinking, one night stands, and just general fun in 4 yrs or so.
Cut your losses while you are still on the fence and save yourself the pain of a divorce at a young age.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

,..if she said she was just talking to the guy, who am I to question her? She's never, ever given me a reason not to trust her,..

Do you have any idea how many times I've heard and read these exact words from guys married for 20 years, just returning from their divorce settlement proceedings?

But this girl, call it oneitis, whatever, we've known eachother forever and she's literally my best friend. I can't just kick my best friend away, I was there when her dad died and she was there when my mom commit suicide. I confide in, and trust her more than I can talk to my own parents. Spending the night at eachother's houses, etc. Most of our relationship was outside school. There's literally never been a person I was closer to.

Hypergamy doesn't care about the RElationship Equity you think she'll appreciate.