"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Long-term impact of COVID-19 on dating?

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I ran across this post and what caught my eye is the idea that there will be a move in the coming years away from big cities. People will realize that they can work remote and companies can save money by paying people lower salaries as they are in lower cost of living areas. Now I wonder what this would mean for game meccas like say some major cities that attract large swaths of good looking and younger women who want to sleep around instead of getting married. Such cities are great for playboys looking to get their notch count up due to these women being around.

I fail to see how a smaller town or anything could replicate that. My reasoning is that the people will be more gung ho about marriage by 30 and the lifestyle will be less conductive to casual sex and being single. Not just that, you'd have to deal with judgmental nosy small town folks that will stop you from sleeping around and throw the fuggin bible in your face at every turn for having sex before marriage lol. I think people who stay in big cities will stay for just the playboy lifestyle and casual sex/socially liberal lifestyle itself because smaller cities and small towns in the US do not welcome it.

Oh yeah and this is the post.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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