"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Long term girlfriend is opened to threesomes

Stéphane

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Should i go for it, I see this girl as long term marriage material..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tiguere

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Don't open that can of worms if you care/love the girl
 

jophil28

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Stéphane said:
Should i go for it, I see this girl as long term marriage material..
Who suggested a threesome.You or her ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jophil28

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Stéphane said:
Should i go for it, I see this girl as long term marriage material..
What ya gonna say at the point in the marriage ceremony when the preacher says,"..forsaking all others ?"
 

HariPoter13

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I hope you mean a threesome as in you + 2 girls. If its the other way round I'd dump her. And think for a moment about my sexuality.
 

r0cky

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All girls dream of being DPed. If shes open to 2 girls 1 guy, I can bet she will ask you to return her the favor and will force you to bring another guy. Theres no such thing as a free lunch.
Dont listen to these people, its not gay to have a 2 male 3some.
 

Stéphane

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I suggested it, and its 2 girls one guy, but I don't think it is a good idea.
 

Ease

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Hell no for long term marriage material.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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