Long-term friend or girlfriend?

[tamvonz1989]

Hello DJ's

There's this girl who has been in my class for more than 2 years now.

Recently, i decided to get of my ass and be known.

I've gotten to know this girl but i dont know what to do?

We have a lot of things in common.

If i get into a relationship with her, i know that it wont last.
If i stay friends with her, i know it will last very long.

Please help me out.

 

[dannowillbookem]

listen to me man, listen closely

girls are shallow and will use you. i have chick friends who are really there for me. correction. i have a chick friend. maybe two, but thats max. other than that girls are only good for basically thoughts too gay to tell your boys and sex. they're not emotional help cause they'll always crumble, at least at this age.

go for relationship and bang her.

 

[tamvonz1989]

Hey, thanks for replying.

This girl is DIFFERENT. She is not ur average slut/ho/*****/. She's ALWAYS positive. I could make a list of how she is different to other girls but i wont.

Right now, i'd rather have her as a friend for many years instead of a girlfriend for a few months.

 

[Indifference Kills]

why do you think she'll be a great long term friend but a short term girlfriend?
most LTR work because the two in them would be good friends regardless of a romatic relationship.

 

[Mr_rogers]

Hey, thanks for replying.

This girl is DIFFERENT. She is not ur average slut/ho/*****/. She's ALWAYS positive. I could make a list of how she is different to other girls but i wont.

Have you any idea how overused that is? Every girl that I hear about on this forum is different. Gets on one's nerves after awhile.

 

[tamvonz1989]

why do you think she'll be a great long term friend but a short term girlfriend?
most LTR work because the two in them would be good friends regardless of a romatic relationship.

well, from my observations, most relationships fail after a few months

i guess im just a *****

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

This is the most common mistake the guys make, get friends then hope it will turn romantic later. Thing is, its very hard to get out of the friendship zone if you get in there, there will be less than 1% success rate of things to turn romantic later.
My suggestion is, go for it, get in a relationship, practice, if it wont last long it wont matter.
If you want to be a DJ, you must learn not to let your life revolve around 1 G, get more friends and know more Gs from them, trust me, later on when u become good, it wont matter that the relationship wont last long.