"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Long List of Demands

fertileTurtle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2006
Messages
578
Reaction score
10
Location
South Carolina, USA
Some chick I know wrote this on facebook. Just look how long it is.
​

Awwe to all you guys out there.lol

Every girl dreams that one day she will find a boy that does these things for her. Even the smallest action can have the BIGGEST impact in someones life.

• give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.

• leave her cute text notes.

• kiss her in front of your friends.

• tell her she is gorgeous..

• look into her eyes when you talk to her.

• let her mess with your hair

• touch her hair.

• just walk around with her.

• "FORGiVE HER FOR HER MiSTAKES"

• look at her like she`s the only one you see.

• tickle her even when she says stop.

• hold her hand when you`re around your friends.

• when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.

• let her fall asleep in your arms..

• get her mad, then kiss her.

• tease her and let her tease you back.

• stay up all night with her when she`s sick.

• watch her favorite movie with her.

• kiss her forehead.

• give her the world.

• write her letters.

• let her wear your clothes.

• when she`s sad, hang out with her.

• let her know she`s important.

• let her take all the photos she wants of you.

• kiss her in the pouring rain.

• when you fall in love with her, tell her.

• and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved someone before.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

daygameguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2008
Messages
996
Reaction score
27
Location
NY
lol I would bust her balls so fvcking bad.
 

Dannyrt34

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2006
Messages
684
Reaction score
20
Age
40
Location
Belle Vernon, PA
Actually, she didn't write that. There's a few girls with the EXACT list on my facebook. It's a long quote or something they found on a website. Most of those are weird romantic things you only see in movies. There's like one or two that are actually ok though, such as:

Tickle her even when she says stop
Get her mad, then kiss her (Unpredictable)
Tease her and let her tease you back. (We all know that one)
 

Leporello

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 18, 2003
Messages
955
Reaction score
13
Location
DC
I lend them my t-shirts to sleep in, but that's because i find it sexy.

If a guy actually remembered to do all these things the girl would find it annoying.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

EastWind

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 24, 2007
Messages
252
Reaction score
18
Location
Germany
Those things are actually completely acceptable if your girl is devoted to you and to making you happy, behaves well etc. Then it's completely acceptable to reward her. A lot of these things actually come to me naturally if my girl works to make me happy.

What's bad is guys doing this because they feel they HAVE to or because they think it will get them the girl. Nothing wrong with doing those things if your relationship is doing well.
 

Trajhenkhet01

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2008
Messages
66
Reaction score
2
In a very good LTR you'll hit all those points at least once. Non of that should be given freely but as rewards for a truly loving partner and in moderation. Lord know I'll have issues with the movie point, as well as the swearing point, and the forgive all mistakes (what kind of mistake are we talking here?).
 
Top