"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Long Layoff Need Advice on Getting Back

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LoneSilver

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Well, I am back after a long layoff from here and working out as well.

Not to go into the details of why I'd like some advice on getting back into lifting as I stopped working out in June (personal issues).

Before this I did the Deadlifts, Bench, Squat, Military Press all the compound ones and was on the 5x5 rippletoe routine.

What do you suggest on reps, sets on getting back into a routine not so much the 5x5 but something I can build back up pretty fast and remember I am no spring chicken at 48.

Thanks for the info and hope everyone is doing OK.

LoneSilver
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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