"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Long Distant Plate coming to stay while kids are here

2Rocky

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How do you recommend working around pre teen and teenage daughters when a hot piece of ass rolls in to spend the weekend and wants you to absolutely ravage her. One kid's bedroom shares a wall with mine. It's my weekend with the kids.

The family vacation house has someone in it that weekend. Trying to think of a way to have the kids spend the night at a friend's house without raising to many red flags with their mother.

Due to some event that weekend, hotel rooms are in short supply and I really would rather have a lazy day of multiple rounds in my own bedroom and shower...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BeExcellent

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Advice from the old lady:

Well do you want your daughters behaving like this woman? That is the question. Because she is about to model wh0re behavior in front of them. Once you open that Pandora's box all bets are off. I'd avoid having her stay at your place. It's simply not smart behavior from a parenting standpoint. My children are the same ages. No way I'd want my ex husband having some girl he's not serious about having sex with some woman while they are in the house.

It will upset your children and is a terrible example to set if you are trying to teach your girls any sort of morality. You have kids. If you want them to grow up and make wise choices you have to model wise choices in front of them.

This ain't it. I mean if you are a dad who doesn't mind your daughters' boyfriends banging them silly under your roof, knock yourself out. That's the logic teen and pre-teen girls are going to apply. Bet on it.
 

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You will/are modeling the quality of man they will look for as a partner.
 

BetterCallSaul

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Rent a room for a few hours. You might be surprised if you call around and just ask the management there if you can rent a room for about 4 hours to take a nap, because you have layover until your flight from a business meeting. I would not bang this woman in the house with kids there.
 
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