"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NSX-R

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Hey guys.

I want to have your opinion over Long Distance Relationships and what is your experience with it if you had any?

In my case i met a HB8.5/9 ( about 2 years younger than me im 19) 1 month ago and we ended up being together.
The problem is that she is from another country and she was having vacation when she met me,and now she is back at her country.
We talk everyday all day long and im considering her to be oneitis.

The problem is that i'm not sure when we will meet again but i would like to have your opinion for how i can deal with it ,it will be highly appreciated.

Thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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Just start seeing other girls. This one is a dead end. It was a short fling and enjoy it for what it was worth. Especially as you don't know when you'll see her again. Don't waste your youth chatting with a girl hundreds of miles away while there are girls within 2 to 5 miles of you ready to open their legs for you.
 

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NSX-R said:
I want to have your opinion over Long Distance Relationships
I didn't even need to read the rest of this.

When you're in a LDR, you cannot effectively maintain the woman's interest. You cannot provide her with the satisfaction of body language, touching, kissing or sex. She can easily be swept away by any man in her vicinity.

LDRs are not worth the energy and time. You can easily find another average bytch in the same city you live in. Trust me, most of them are interchangeable. You realize that when you date enough of them.
 

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El Payaso said:
Just start seeing other girls. This one is a dead end. It was a short fling and enjoy it for what it was worth. Especially as you don't know when you'll see her again. Don't waste your youth chatting with a girl hundreds of miles away while there are girls within 2 to 5 miles of you ready to open their legs for you.
You are right,i have also thought of this possibility and i have already arranged something with one hb8 but that other girl i think is just too special to let go.
 

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I tried once for several years to make it with a LDR girl in a different country. What a complete fücking waste of time! 99.9% of the time it never works out, so begin your exit with supreme peace of mind.

I know it's hard news to take, but don't waste any more of your life with this. You will miss out and refuse girls that are right in front of you due to your commitment to this girl which is thousands of miles away. I know I did, and I punch myself in the balls to this day for it. All it is is a fantasy you're imagining in your head. Nothing is real. She could be banging 14 guys a week, gain 50 pounds in 6 months, and you'll never know a damn thing. Cheating is easy, lying is easy. It's a complete illusion of a relationship. If she's sweet on some dude around the corner from her, she'll dump your ass and pick that guy because he's closer and can actually see her any time.

This is a lesson in letting things go in life that don't work out. People will leave you, things in life will change, and not all relationships can last. In fact, many won't. Withdraw, tell her you're becoming busy, and ultimately just forget about her. Good luck!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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