"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Met a chick online recently. We've been chatting a little bit here and there. At least every 3 days. She's interested in meeting and so am I, but between her schedule and mine it's gonna be a week or more from now till we can get together. My question is do I keep up the chatting until we can meet up or just drop off until I can set up a date?

Also, how's a good way to get her to send a full body pic without her thinking her size is a concern. All her pics are selfies and I suspect she's a little bit bigger girl, which to some extent is ok with me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why did you respond to an ad with nothing but selfies?
 
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They aren't all selfies. It's just hard to see what she really looks like in most. I have an idea but its not 100% until I see her in person.
 
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What's wrong with saying it's a little hard to tell how you look from your pics, would you mind sending better ones? If she's insulted and stops talking to you oh well, she was just some online chick anyway.

I don't see what's so bad about not wanting to waste your time. As long as you phrase everything respectfully and confidently then it's fine.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BigBCTD said:
They aren't all selfies. It's just hard to see what she really looks like in most. I have an idea but its not 100% until I see her in person.
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Why did you respond to an ad where it's hard to see what kind of a body the chick has?
 
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Maximus Rex said:
Why did you respond to an ad where it's hard to see what kind of a body the chick has?
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I have a feeling anything I say will be used against me here. Lol. But anyway, I would have to say she is very pretty and we have the same type of humor.
 
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