Hi guys,
I'm new to the forum but have read some of the PUA material. I know that when a girl puts you in the friend zone it is close to impossible to get out.
I have one really good friend from college who I have been crazy about for almost 4 years although I have been firmly in the friend zone throughout (this girl who considers me her best friend has slept with dozens of men but never me). Over the years, I've tried to stop all contact with her and at one point did so for a full year which helped me to move on and get a girlfriend. I'm single again and I find myself talking by phone (we are now on different continents) and emailing the friend-zone girl all the time (though in fairness to myself she initiates about 80 or 90 percent of the time).
My question is how I can either convince myself to move on again and drop her completely, how I can somehow giver her a hint to call me less often or how I can get her interested in me by sexually escalating etc (I feel that by now this is not really realistic especially given that we are not present in the same country though we will be at some point).
Anyway, your thoughts? This girl has called me maybe 6 times in the last 24 hours and I don't answer. I feel like an ass doing this sort of stuff but, yeah, sigh...any ideas?
I'm new to the forum but have read some of the PUA material. I know that when a girl puts you in the friend zone it is close to impossible to get out.
I have one really good friend from college who I have been crazy about for almost 4 years although I have been firmly in the friend zone throughout (this girl who considers me her best friend has slept with dozens of men but never me). Over the years, I've tried to stop all contact with her and at one point did so for a full year which helped me to move on and get a girlfriend. I'm single again and I find myself talking by phone (we are now on different continents) and emailing the friend-zone girl all the time (though in fairness to myself she initiates about 80 or 90 percent of the time).
My question is how I can either convince myself to move on again and drop her completely, how I can somehow giver her a hint to call me less often or how I can get her interested in me by sexually escalating etc (I feel that by now this is not really realistic especially given that we are not present in the same country though we will be at some point).
Anyway, your thoughts? This girl has called me maybe 6 times in the last 24 hours and I don't answer. I feel like an ass doing this sort of stuff but, yeah, sigh...any ideas?