Capi Crimini
Banned
My life in short. (really its about getting girls and my experience and the lessons i've learned. If it's too long then you don't desrve it but you can read the last paragraph its not as good but it will get you the main point. Read the story though)
I grew up in Wisc. I was actually pretty Dj as a kid. My only weakness was I didn't have a lot of boy friends. I had like three. one was super tight and then a TON of girls as friends. I was more horny as a child then I am now. lol. Maybe thats sad. Whatever. When i was a little kid I really was a good DJ though. Unitentionally mostly. I could go into this deeper. If you really think about it. a lot of the games we play as little kids act upon us as we grow up in our dating games and careers. 'Life in it's purest form is water, it's the glass that matters'-Gpi
Anyway. Then I moved and thurned into a normal AFC. Sorta cause the move scared me into being afraid to attach. when I moved I had three friends. Not the real popular kids but just so-so. They adopted me into there little gang. We played around. I didn't have much appeal to the girls in the new place I lived in, different region different taste, and I much taste for them. They were really valley girl and I was more northern. THat was third grade. Then I moved to a new school, where I met Oir(not her real name.lol.) Now all my skills with ladies had been dulled and I was afraid of her. She was from Colorado and wasn't valley girl. She was more my type. Brown hair. Italian. very beautiful. I cared for her and still do. The years went buy.I was very shy. Some slightly eventful things went on. In sixth grade, we almost went out. I asked her out on the phone(whoops) and she admited to liking me but was to scared and felt to young to go out or something. Next year. She starts going out with other boys. ect. I'm in a small school. My class started at 11 in fourth grade and ended in 25(-2) in eigth. Anyway in eight grade I hung out with the goofy class clown kid and I guess tried to be tuffer and more gangster and black. (hint her current boyfriend was very wigger.)So baisically I tried being someone I was not. And eventually It did become me. I became more tuff and cooler. I talk wit more of a slang. I can rap. Which was good because It helped me become more open. But at the same time, it wasn't me.I mean it was mean because now I was ghetto. I was posing a little but I had grown up near the ghetto. I carried a knife which evolved to a gun. But thats not the point. The point was that Oir wasn't looking for that. Becoming someone I wasn't evolved around me so much that I would do stuff that wasn't me and I became entralled in it. It's sorta hard to explain but by becoming someone I wasn't I didn't become any better. And Oir didn't care about that. She was happy I was more talkative. But thats not what she cared about. She didn't care about me because of my hair or because I'm not fat, She was around me because of me. Cause of who I was.
What I'm trying to say is. You guys are so focused on SS and getting a quick lay you forget about the real things, In highschool there's no need for sex and drugs. Speaking from experience drugs rot your brain. I've seen guys brainfried from drugs. Weed won't kill you. But it will mess with you. You'll lose valubal coping skills.School is not the most important thing either. Whats important is surrounding yourself by the people who are really your friends and who help you and support you in your future careers. Whats important is finding your dream, and then following it.
I hear all this bad ass ****. Like. I just banged her. Or I went to an orgy last night. I guess sometimes you just need to grow up. In this age of your life there really isn't any need for relationships. All you need is good friends. When you get into you twenties and thirties you should worry about it. And when you do get into a relationship it should be about develpoing a bond between you and the other person so that you and them will better each other. A lot of you are confusing love and lust. Love is your best friend someone that you care about so much that it's impossible to wright down. Love isn't between a girl and a boy. It's between a friend or a family member. A lot of people on this site also think loves a two-way highway. its not. You can love someone even if they don't love you back. In fact you should love everyone. As to loving a girl. The best way I can describe it is like a perrenial. It only blooms once. There will only be one girl in your life. You might lust other girls. but you'll only have one wife
.-EDIT- <<true love should be where wife is .I was just thinking best case scenerio -EDIT
I don't know. You'll probably all flame me. There I hope it helps someone.
What I was trying to say is be who you want to be. Maybe its not DJ. But if you try and emulate somehting your not to get a girl then that relationship is not worth it. There are things you can do. Like be more active and more talkitive. Get a nicer haircut. But don't rely on those things to get the girl. rely on you and your personality. And don't live for girls. Live for you. Whatever you get it or not.
I grew up in Wisc. I was actually pretty Dj as a kid. My only weakness was I didn't have a lot of boy friends. I had like three. one was super tight and then a TON of girls as friends. I was more horny as a child then I am now. lol. Maybe thats sad. Whatever. When i was a little kid I really was a good DJ though. Unitentionally mostly. I could go into this deeper. If you really think about it. a lot of the games we play as little kids act upon us as we grow up in our dating games and careers. 'Life in it's purest form is water, it's the glass that matters'-Gpi
Anyway. Then I moved and thurned into a normal AFC. Sorta cause the move scared me into being afraid to attach. when I moved I had three friends. Not the real popular kids but just so-so. They adopted me into there little gang. We played around. I didn't have much appeal to the girls in the new place I lived in, different region different taste, and I much taste for them. They were really valley girl and I was more northern. THat was third grade. Then I moved to a new school, where I met Oir(not her real name.lol.) Now all my skills with ladies had been dulled and I was afraid of her. She was from Colorado and wasn't valley girl. She was more my type. Brown hair. Italian. very beautiful. I cared for her and still do. The years went buy.I was very shy. Some slightly eventful things went on. In sixth grade, we almost went out. I asked her out on the phone(whoops) and she admited to liking me but was to scared and felt to young to go out or something. Next year. She starts going out with other boys. ect. I'm in a small school. My class started at 11 in fourth grade and ended in 25(-2) in eigth. Anyway in eight grade I hung out with the goofy class clown kid and I guess tried to be tuffer and more gangster and black. (hint her current boyfriend was very wigger.)So baisically I tried being someone I was not. And eventually It did become me. I became more tuff and cooler. I talk wit more of a slang. I can rap. Which was good because It helped me become more open. But at the same time, it wasn't me.I mean it was mean because now I was ghetto. I was posing a little but I had grown up near the ghetto. I carried a knife which evolved to a gun. But thats not the point. The point was that Oir wasn't looking for that. Becoming someone I wasn't evolved around me so much that I would do stuff that wasn't me and I became entralled in it. It's sorta hard to explain but by becoming someone I wasn't I didn't become any better. And Oir didn't care about that. She was happy I was more talkative. But thats not what she cared about. She didn't care about me because of my hair or because I'm not fat, She was around me because of me. Cause of who I was.
What I'm trying to say is. You guys are so focused on SS and getting a quick lay you forget about the real things, In highschool there's no need for sex and drugs. Speaking from experience drugs rot your brain. I've seen guys brainfried from drugs. Weed won't kill you. But it will mess with you. You'll lose valubal coping skills.School is not the most important thing either. Whats important is surrounding yourself by the people who are really your friends and who help you and support you in your future careers. Whats important is finding your dream, and then following it.
I hear all this bad ass ****. Like. I just banged her. Or I went to an orgy last night. I guess sometimes you just need to grow up. In this age of your life there really isn't any need for relationships. All you need is good friends. When you get into you twenties and thirties you should worry about it. And when you do get into a relationship it should be about develpoing a bond between you and the other person so that you and them will better each other. A lot of you are confusing love and lust. Love is your best friend someone that you care about so much that it's impossible to wright down. Love isn't between a girl and a boy. It's between a friend or a family member. A lot of people on this site also think loves a two-way highway. its not. You can love someone even if they don't love you back. In fact you should love everyone. As to loving a girl. The best way I can describe it is like a perrenial. It only blooms once. There will only be one girl in your life. You might lust other girls. but you'll only have one wife
.-EDIT- <<true love should be where wife is .I was just thinking best case scenerio -EDIT
I don't know. You'll probably all flame me. There I hope it helps someone.
What I was trying to say is be who you want to be. Maybe its not DJ. But if you try and emulate somehting your not to get a girl then that relationship is not worth it. There are things you can do. Like be more active and more talkitive. Get a nicer haircut. But don't rely on those things to get the girl. rely on you and your personality. And don't live for girls. Live for you. Whatever you get it or not.
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