"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lonesome Dove - Larry McMurtry

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I saw the mini-series way back in the day and had been meaning to read the book for a while now. Finally read it.

Well, other than being a fantastic story, the author is brilliant when it comes to relationships between the men and women. It's got it all. It's copyrighted in 1985 and won the Pulitzer in '86. So it seems Larry McMurty was a man ahead of his time, he knows women and what makes them tick and what makes them not tick. :)

I don't want to give too much away so I'll just say that I highly recommend it. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lonesome Dove has to be my all time favorite book I have ever read. In fact, I've read it multiple times over the years. I get something new out of that book each time I read it.

I also recommend the sequels, with the same characters. Streets of Laredo, Dead Man Walking, and Comanche Moon. They are not as great as the first one, Lonesome Dove, but still excellent reads.

Great recommendation. Gus McCrae is the ultimate ladies man, imo. The dialog back and forth between him and Call is brilliant.
 

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Mr.Positive said:
Lonesome Dove has to be my all time favorite book I have ever read. In fact, I've read it multiple times over the years. I get something new out of that book each time I read it.

I also recommend the sequels, with the same characters. Streets of Laredo, Dead Man Walking, and Comanche Moon. They are not as great as the first one, Lonesome Dove, but still excellent reads.

Great recommendation. Gus McCrae is the ultimate ladies man, imo. The dialog back and forth between him and Call is brilliant.
I read Dead Man Walking back in the day and it has to be my all time favorite western. Haven't read the other ones but I will some day.

Gus is great, the charmer, drinker, gambler, womanizer.....my idol :D

I agree the dialog between the two can be hilarious and brilliant at other times....great story.

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Yes, the books and tv show were all awesome. very well cast too.
Tried re-watching the mini series on Netflix.....let me tell you, although the casting seemed to be spot on, directing has come along way since those days....so far, I've only re-watched the first of the four part series, it seemed to follow the book pretty well but, as far as some of the secondary relationships, it seemed to miss some of the key points....

The book dives in deep, and doesn't seem to miss a thing.

What do they say....the book's always better. :up:
 
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