"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SoulInFire

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This is my situation, I am 28 years old, physically speaking I consider myself nice, I have a good job, I like to exercise and am in good shape, I have a nice car there in the garage, but the problem is that I feel alone because I have not friends who go out to practice to meet new girls, I do not know how to act alone in a bar and go to meet a girl, after all I would do my social life. Please help me with readings or tips to make the next step?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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See my signature.....

Read the basics (DJ Bible, Pook, Anti-Dump) here first ......

Then get involved in something, some sort of activity you like....

Friendships will flow from there.....

Those friends will network you to their friends....

Eventually you will have people to hang with...

Not gonna solve your problem immeadiately but it's a start....

Read the reference material FIRST...

It will instruct you in the girl / bar / dating / sex / relationship things you are asking about....

Be carefull about what you read though......it will show you things that you might not really want to see...

Over and Out.
 

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for real how do you meet more platonic friends as mine are pissing me off
and also i dont like hanging with workmates.
 

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hi boomerick, said: It will instruct you in the girl / bar / dating / sex / relationship things you are asking about....

will you help me in these topics??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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