"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SoulInFire

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This is my situation, I am 28 years old, physically speaking I consider myself nice, I have a good job, I like to exercise and am in good shape, I have a nice car there in the garage, but the problem is that I feel alone because I have not friends who go out to practice to meet new girls, I do not know how to act alone in a bar and go to meet a girl, after all I would do my social life. Please help me with readings or tips to make the next step?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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See my signature.....

Read the basics (DJ Bible, Pook, Anti-Dump) here first ......

Then get involved in something, some sort of activity you like....

Friendships will flow from there.....

Those friends will network you to their friends....

Eventually you will have people to hang with...

Not gonna solve your problem immeadiately but it's a start....

Read the reference material FIRST...

It will instruct you in the girl / bar / dating / sex / relationship things you are asking about....

Be carefull about what you read though......it will show you things that you might not really want to see...

Over and Out.
 

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for real how do you meet more platonic friends as mine are pissing me off
and also i dont like hanging with workmates.
 

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hi boomerick, said: It will instruct you in the girl / bar / dating / sex / relationship things you are asking about....

will you help me in these topics??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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