"Loneliness"

[youngprodigy]

Recently after swallowing the Red Pill, I changed as an individual. I used to be super beta but I was blessed genetically so I got some experience out of pure luck. But now I see the world past all the bs fantasies displayed by the media.

At this point, I've lowered my expectations when it comes to women (plates) so keep myself emotionally dispatched. I've been successful with attractive and older women. But for some reason, the more I try to avoid relationships, the more potential LTR/STR opportunities show up.

Also, the feeling of loneliness also comes by where you wish you had someone to waste time with and get to know emotionally. Plus sex with someone you genuinely care about tops any casual hook up in my opinion. But I don't wanna be sleeping with other women during this because in Toronto, girls care a lot about your rep, and being termed a "**** boy" or "player" wouldn't pleasant (small world).

I'm only 19 at this point, and I know I'm still young. Should I let the feeling of loneliness subside and gain more experience of spinning new plates, or should I experiment with potential LTR/STR.

The problem with most LTR/STR potential's I've met is that they make you become exclusive with them before they progress sexually with you.

All advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

P.S. If this matters, I live in the suburbs

 

[Infern0]

Well in no way should you become exclusive with a girl you havent slept with, thats back to front.

But dont take this red pill down so far that it comes out of your ass and you end up mgtow, there isnt anything wrong with an LTR if thats what you want, but you make sure its with a decent chick and you handle yourself properly in it.

Remember, a relationship is supplimentary to a good life, not the main factor in it.

 

[AlphaNate]

Do what you want, but this...

girls care a lot about your rep, and being termed a "**** boy" or "player" wouldn't pleasant (small world).

This doesn't apply as you get older.

 

[Roober]

The whole concept of spinning plates is based on eventually finding a good woman for you. Some will work out, some won't work out. The key is not commiting until you are sure you have the woman you desire, and not settling because of loneliness or otherwise

 

[FwoGiZ]

Toronto isn't a small world.. you can literally be spinning plates forever and none of them might ever realise anything ever. Your reputation doesn't mean ANYTHING in such a place...
Here are my tips; Spin at least 2-3 Plates at all time. Get in a more serious relationship with a chick if you want but DO NOT PROMISE MONOGAMY!!!! Do not EVER buy anything over 200$ with her, do not get joint bank account, only 1 name on a lease, be 100% independent and no ball chain attach ever and you'll be thankful. You can still bond very deeply with a women without doing all those stupid things that society tells you that you need. It's a lie.
That's it. Pretty simple eh... oh do not get oneitis, men's worst enemy.

 

[wifehunter]

If you're lonely, you don't have enough hobbies.

 

[kronreiff]

Lonely? A DJ has a purpose in life. He has ambition, a world to conquer so to speak, and women come an go in the real DJ world. You need to get your frame and game in order. You come 1st, women are merely tools to amuse you and release some pent up spooge when you need to. Find your destiny, purpose and ambitions, and when you do, there will be no time for loneliness.

 

[Red Legg]

The only time in my life I have been lonely is when I was married..

 

[SuckItUp]

You are 19, which is an age where you should be opening yourself for any and all opportunities. Relationships with women should not be taken seriously. You should be focused on figuring out your career goals and life goals.

What most men do not figure out is that loneliness has little to do with not having a woman and a lot to do with not understanding what you are supposed to do.

Go out and meet people, figure out your passions, and research about what your are interested in and work on self development. You'll find that loneliness feeling will be greatly reduced because you'll find purpose. In a twist irony this is also happens to be when women seem to be coming out of the woodwork to meet you.

 

[Roober]

You are 19, which is an age where you should be opening yourself for any and all opportunities. Relationships with women should not be taken seriously. You should be focused on figuring out your career goals and life goals.

What most men do not figure out is that loneliness has little to do with not having a woman and a lot to do with not understanding what you are supposed to do.

Go out and meet people, figure out your passions, and research about what your are interested in and work on self development. You'll find that loneliness feeling will be greatly reduced because you'll find purpose. In a twist irony this is also happens to be when women seem to be coming out of the woodwork to meet you.

Well said! The loneliness comes from not having a mission/purpose in life. Figure out what that is for you right now, and the rest will fall into place.

 

[AlphaNate]

The whole concept of spinning plates is based on eventually finding a good woman for you.

No.