"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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englishcrap
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englishcrap
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My inbox is screwed up and i unable to access messages. Lets organise a meeting in Covent Gardens or in Big store in Oxford street and sarge there.
I have sarged in Selfridges in Oxford street as well as Harrods in Knightbridge, Covent Gardens all are good training grounds to sarge.
Leciester square is becoming too much of a hunting ground especially with the publication of Styles book.
So lets do it 2 weeks from now on a sunday ?
Anyone who turns up I expect them to approaching the minute we say go, no spectators please.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RE: Leicester Square - I can't say i've noticed much in the way of new competition although the areas hardly on my favorites list.Originally posted by englishcrap
Guys,
My inbox is screwed up and i unable to access messages. Lets organise a meeting in Covent Gardens or in Big store in Oxford street and sarge there.
I have sarged in Selfridges in Oxford street as well as Harrods in Knightbridge, Covent Gardens all are good training grounds to sarge.
Leciester square is becoming too much of a hunting ground especially with the publication of Styles book.
So lets do it 2 weeks from now on a sunday ?
Anyone who turns up I expect them to approaching the minute we say go, no spectators please.
Anyway thanks for all your messages guys, I'll message you back in the next couple of days. A meet date for 2 weeks on sunday is ideal.
I know that one or two of you said you had minor problems approaching. You'll obviously need to get up to speed before the meet so message me and we can meet 1on1 a few days beforehand to resolve any issues..
SlaterT