"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

London tonight and/or tommorrow!!!! Reply ASAP!

Thread starter Diesel_Power
Start date Aug 16, 2007

Diesel_Power

Don Juan

Aug 16, 2007

Im a Canadian in London for the next 2 nights and I need help from the locals. PM if your around. Been having trouble meeting people my age to hang out with. Girls here are soo frantic and are always travelling in large groups. Makes things intimidating for me because im not from around here.

Hopefully we can meet up and hit a bunch of hotspots and talk to girls.

Last edited: Aug 16, 2007

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.