"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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London Don Juan Meet Up in May

GotED?

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Who's in the London locality and is up to meet up for a social get-together in May?

Not a 'Find a Wingman' thing - just exchange stories and enjoy some good DJ Bro times and advices for each other in person (day or night event).

Then we can come back here and make fun of how really fugly each other is (yeah, no more lies about you being a HB9 - who the phuck said that about himself last year??)

Let me know who's highly interested in coming out of the DJ closet, and share any ideas of where to meet if you have one.

Exodus
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BraddH

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GotED? said:
You sound like a Male Gold-Digger

Maybe someone on here will get you what you need if you are HB9.9 :crackup:
Pretty much. A 19 year old student from Finland just can't afford tickets to London just for a "meet-up". Otherwise I'm fvckimg in man!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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