"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol weird i know but i still need help

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ok well.. ive known this girl for a long time and were like the best of friends and we started going out.. but now that weve started going out our conversation has like DIED. -whenever we txt or ring eachother- but whenever i talk to anyone else its fine. and its not my problem coz im not shy.. and neither is she. we just have NOTHING to talk about.. and whenever we do its just about random stuff.. like not anything meaningfull conversations going on.. and when i try she replys with like yup or cool or something hard to start up convos from... whenever we see eachother in person its fine tho.. and we really like eachother.. and we want to make it last. i dont think she has a problem with us not talking much.. but i do.. any tips, ideas or anything that can help will be extremely appreciated thanx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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forget about the damn phones, n00b. Only talk to her in person or over the phone to set up dates.

Read the Bible.
 
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Lol

so can i man.. so can i.. :trouble: :yes:
 
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