"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol @ this girl... is this normal?

BlahUgh

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Ok so I'm waiting with my friend to get picked up, and this girl that likes him and says hes so sexy (looks like an average guy to me tho) walks through the door sees him and starts going crazy. I mean the girl was nuts she started like crying and then left the lobby area and ran away acting all hysterical, screaming and crying/giggling (couldnt fvcking tell what se was doing), so then her friends try to calm her down and I think tried to get her to go meet my friend, but she was resisting. So eventually she calms down and walks over to my friend and has to say bye since our ride came.

This chick was about to enter 9th grade I think so that might explain her crazy behaviour - but is this kinda thing normal for girls her age?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nishbuk

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They say that kids are doing drugs earlier and earlier nowadays.

GET HER OFF THE CRACK.
 

penkitten

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teenage hormones, glad they are over with
hallujah !!
 
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