"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol she never called me back

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Update to my thread about that girl from the bar. I was even kinda acting like a jerk then, asking about her ex, but she gave me her number without even asking (how I don't know), called her the next day and asked if she'd be around on the weekend, she said yeah... then a few days later I started drunk dialing her and asking about her personal life (which was stupid) she got all upset and hung up. Called her a week later and said I was sorry, she said I envaded her privacy and had no reason to talk to me, I then asked "then why did you give me your number?" she hesitated and said "I was trashed." I then left a voicemail friday apologizing, but she never called me back.

Now understand, I'm not trying to get with this chick anymore, she's been nexted... My question is, was she ever interested in me to begin with? I was going into her personal life at the bar, she looked mad at me, I was about to leave, then she read her number off. it was the weirdest thing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She wanted attention and you gave it to her period.
Women will give out their numbers, to a guy at times to feel validated or for bragging rights....
 

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So you don't think we stopped talking cuz I went into her personal life? You're saying she didn't like me regardless?
 

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Snowman23 said:
So you don't think we stopped talking cuz I went into her personal life? You're saying she didn't like me regardless?
snow

first off you broke a cardinal rule by drunk dialing, thats a no-no, unless it was a booty call (which isn't because you didn't reach that point yet)

2nd, It's over and done with, charge her to the game, she said she was wasted, maybe thats the truth, who gives a 747 flying BEEP, keep it moving, you gonna drive yourself crazy thinking about this, Ross Jefferies(guys think about their mistakes or negative thoughts up to 5000 times a month!!) talks about this ****, learn from it and keep it moving, so it doesn't happen again

peace
 
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