"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol she never called me back

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Update to my thread about that girl from the bar. I was even kinda acting like a jerk then, asking about her ex, but she gave me her number without even asking (how I don't know), called her the next day and asked if she'd be around on the weekend, she said yeah... then a few days later I started drunk dialing her and asking about her personal life (which was stupid) she got all upset and hung up. Called her a week later and said I was sorry, she said I envaded her privacy and had no reason to talk to me, I then asked "then why did you give me your number?" she hesitated and said "I was trashed." I then left a voicemail friday apologizing, but she never called me back.

Now understand, I'm not trying to get with this chick anymore, she's been nexted... My question is, was she ever interested in me to begin with? I was going into her personal life at the bar, she looked mad at me, I was about to leave, then she read her number off. it was the weirdest thing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She wanted attention and you gave it to her period.
Women will give out their numbers, to a guy at times to feel validated or for bragging rights....
 

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So you don't think we stopped talking cuz I went into her personal life? You're saying she didn't like me regardless?
 

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Snowman23 said:
So you don't think we stopped talking cuz I went into her personal life? You're saying she didn't like me regardless?
snow

first off you broke a cardinal rule by drunk dialing, thats a no-no, unless it was a booty call (which isn't because you didn't reach that point yet)

2nd, It's over and done with, charge her to the game, she said she was wasted, maybe thats the truth, who gives a 747 flying BEEP, keep it moving, you gonna drive yourself crazy thinking about this, Ross Jefferies(guys think about their mistakes or negative thoughts up to 5000 times a month!!) talks about this ****, learn from it and keep it moving, so it doesn't happen again

peace
 
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