"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tobiashunter

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Ok, Last night at 5:30, my friend text messages me telling me she is extremely upset blah blah blah and I'm the only one she can talk to about it, but she wants to talk when she gets to her comp (so we can talk over AIM) and that won't be till tomorrow (which is today). Well, 9:30PM rolls around and she calls.. so I ask her what is wrong and she says she can't say infront of her parents. So I say "Is it about your boyfriend?" she said "yes"..So, I follow up with "is it about getting married to him" (cause he proposed a few weeks back and she was quick to say yes). She responded, very hesitantly "yes". Well, I didn't want her to stay in a sad mood so I spent the next hour making her smile and laugh.

Well today comes and she txt's me at 1PM, saying she is a few hours from home. So I write back "you wanna hang out", she says she would love to...

well, about 30 minutes ago, she calls me... and asks if it was possible if I can spend the night... Of course, being her friend, I accept and say sure why not...

Now, I just want to know, in all of your OPINIONS, what will happen? Is this just a friendly get together (I have never spent the night at her place before)? Her boyfriend doesn't even know we are friends.

Their relationship is a long distance one and recently they have been fighting (infact, that is why I think he proposed was to try and salvage the relationship...)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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