"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol ... my ex just sent me this msg on myspace ...

muscleman

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hey.......I know we're not supposed to talk or whatever but I had to say this.............or explain it I guess........I gotta delete you off my friends list......not cuz I don't wana be ur friend cuz thats so far from it........you have to know by now I'll always love you, I can't help it, but every time I see you on my friends list I have to look at ur page and all I see is you flirting with all these girls and it bothers me........understandably so.........you can do whatever you want with your life but i don't wana look at your page and feel bad like your making wrong decisions or whatever so I just think its better that the temptation isn't there to look at all........
love you,

ex
Girls crack me up. :yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rex Man

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eh, makes sense to me. Women are possesive like that. And yeah, facebook/myspace encourages this 'glance at my life' mentality.

On a side note, Clix is definitely the best Axe scent. It's got the most bom chicka wah wah. I measured it.
 

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You gotta upgrade from Axe bro. That stuff is cheap (and even though some girls like .. it smells cheap). You can get a bottle of some nice stuff that'll last you months for like $40-50.

Try Abercrombie Fierce, I always get compliments on it.

Anyway, it was just funny. I'm saving it cause after all I put myself through this made my night.
 

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That cologne you speak of isn't good with my skin tone. I was talking about the cheap stuff!

When I'm at my 'best' i go with the Kenneth Cole Black. Something a struggling college kid can't sport everyday!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why does she have to play with the stuff on your page? She can look at it but she doesn't have to play with it.

Something my grandma always said to me too.
 

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omg lol, i seriously got the same message from my ex almost word for word. they all share the same brain
 

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Maybe she just copied and pasted and switched your names' around :confused:
 

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My ex still has her page set to private b/c of me. On the rare occassion that I will communicate with her, she'll set it back to public, then I ignore her for a few days, and she switches back to private. She has a new bf, and I new gf, but I still seem to control her pivacy settings :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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