LOL is a DJ philosophy a waste of energy?

[flippinfreak]

Of course having it isn't, but, for a quick browse it is just fine, take a few tidbits and go off with what you think will work and constantly work through experience.

I been going philosophy crazy for the last few months. I used to have all my ducks lined up, I had money, women, a great girlfriend(FWB to a more correct degree), education, and friends... I was happy being a so called AFC.

Than one day it all crumbled. I lost my girl due to her family problems and problems from the past. I lost the women because rumours started to spread like cancer, finally turning that around now. I lost friends because of differences is in opinions(My AFC opinions on being nice to everybody and never lying). I lost the money, because my boss went bankrupt. Suddenly, my education was not all I had thought it to be.

Khash made a thread pointing fingers at anybody who visits this site, sapiens was attacked by some troll, Shezz is becoming a laughing stock, 'mature DJ's' are revealing their life problems that should have been dealt with in High school, High school DJ's are regaining ground in the best advice field...

People have always said that experience is the best teacher... there are people ont his planet who have never read a book and live life as a natural DJ. There are others who pursue philosophy and live horribly and without women, miserable, and angry at the world....

Just, when does "balance" come into play? I know DJ's who can't read or write, they are very happy and enjoyable people. I know DJ's who struggle everyday with nothing except their children. I know DJ's who have the most profound knowledge, but LOSE IT when any thought brings up memories of past love...

I am really lost

 

[Mission]

Stat get this man a reality check.

Dude, don't take this site too seriously, I get the impression sometimes that sosuave.com is an escape to many guys, they can come on here and read some posts, maybe even make a post of their own. In the end they may never go out and sarge, they just like the idea of knowing that they can.

Obviously some guys are going to be naturals, but they don't even know what they are doing half the time, so watching them doesn't always work. Just take all the info on this site with a grain of salt, if it does nothing else it teaches you how to get confidence in yourself.

--Mission

 

[johnmich]

Its funny really, so many people knowing all this stuff, yet, they dont "listen" to it and its meanin (im knda one of em).
I was just thinkin that the philosophy is too much. There is a philosophy behind evrything. Everybody has these internal battles with the way they are.
I will revisit this point when i articulate my thoughts, its nearly 5am, im knackered and not thinkin too well.
Hope this post doesnt sound shlte, if it does, my apologies

 

[flippinfreak]

Its funny really, so many people knowing all this stuff, yet, they dont "listen" to it and its meanin (im knda one of em).
I was just thinkin that the philosophy is too much. There is a philosophy behind evrything. Everybody has these internal battles with the way they are.
I will revisit this point when i articulate my thoughts, its nearly 5am, im knackered and not thinkin too well.
Hope this post doesnt sound shlte, if it does, my apologies

*ride it until the motha fvcking wheels fall off" That's one of my favourite philosophies

I understand what you say, probably because caffiene and a small case of Downs, plus the desire for self-validation make me look really deep into what people say. I love reading people(DonJuanForever)

I've been going on and on while I've been a member of this site about the values of breaking the rules, being yourself, and asking questions... One of my biggest goals is to do what your going to sleep for, to articulate my thoughts.

I know of three schools of people. Those who understand the meaning, but make no attempt to "listen"(KBJ). Those who "listen" but make no attempt to understand(AFC). Than the DJ who understands the balance between "listening" and speaking with understanding. I am by no means a DJ, I definitely listen to the advice, I have so many styles in my repertoire I can't articulate a single one of them and give them meaning to another person. I also understand, but only little bits at a time, that I tend to forget quickly(caffeine and THC). So that makes me an aspiring DJ

I have to get to sleep as well, I had no idea what I was getting at when I wrote the original post. I just had a small thought and I let my brain puke my thoughts onto the board, I'll get back to it tomorrow. I hope we have a mutual understanding