"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL I almost had her!!!!!

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Well basically i went to this small kickback with a few people. My brother is kinda talking to some girl and she invited him and told him to bring us along so I went for the f*ck of it. So we show up and its me and about 3 other guys and 2 other chicks in the back yard and were just kicking it and I wasnt drinking or anything, one of the girls says ill give you money to go get some more beer so me and my friend went ahead and left to get some beers. Well we got back and my brother tells me to my ear that the chick (hb8) that lives there is digging me and thought I was cute, so I said f it and i started drinking some coronas to loosen up a bit. Well little by little i started flirting with her and it was on from there. I started talking to her, joking around, kinoing a bit, i could tell she was totally into me, but she was kinda drunk at that point, I even got to the point where she started feeling my arms and she totally loved em. We then went to one of the rooms and she started using her laptop and checking myspace and stuff and she was like my computer is so slow bla bla bla, and i was like well im a csc major and computers are my thing so shes like well you need to come over tomorrow. So then we go back to the main room where they were playing some music, we kinda started dancing a bit but I was just kinda relaxing a bit and letting my buzz go down, so then all of a sudden some other guys show up and apparently one of them is her ex bf, or friend or something, he was big time AFC. They showed up with a nos tank and started giving her baloons and i kinda was trying to get her away from them but then I said f it, the guy that was her ex knew i was getting her and he tried to talk some ****, he was like hey buff guy buy an x large instead of a small shirt. So then i just let her go and they got her so f'd up that she started crying in her room and was a total mess, I just let it go. One thing I do know is that they are having another kickback tomorrow and we are invited, you guys think I should give it another go?? she might not even be worth it, but hey f it we only live once.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dontwannabeafc said:
Well basically i went to this small kickback with a few people. My brother is kinda talking to some girl and she invited him and told him to bring us along so I went for the f*ck of it.

So we show up and its me and about 3 other guys and 2 other chicks in the back yard and were just kicking it and I wasnt drinking or anything, one of the girls says ill give you money to go get some more beer so me and my friend went ahead and left to get some beers.

Well we got back and my brother tells me to my ear that the chick (hb8) that lives there is digging me and thought I was cute, so I said f it and i started drinking some coronas to loosen up a bit. Well little by little i started flirting with her and it was on from there. I started talking to her, joking around, kinoing a bit, i could tell she was totally into me, but she was kinda drunk at that point, I even got to the point where she started feeling my arms and she totally loved em.

We then went to one of the rooms and she started using her laptop and checking myspace and stuff and she was like my computer is so slow bla bla bla, and i was like well im a csc major and computers are my thing so shes like well you need to come over tomorrow. So then we go back to the main room where they were playing some music, we kinda started dancing a bit but I was just kinda relaxing a bit and letting my buzz go down, so then all of a sudden some other guys show up and apparently one of them is her ex bf, or friend or something, he was big time AFC.

They showed up with a nos tank and started giving her baloons and i kinda was trying to get her away from them but then I said f it, the guy that was her ex knew i was getting her and he tried to talk some ****, he was like hey buff guy buy an x large instead of a small. So then i just let her go and they got her so f'd up that she started crying in her room and was a total mess, I just let it go.

One thing I do know is that they are having another kickback tomorrow and we are invited, you guys think I should give it another go?? she might not even be worth it, but hey f it we only live once.
hey do some formatting the next time man... I alreay got glasses....
 

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Rudra said:
hey do some formatting the next time man... I alreay got glasses....

You will start your recovery when you stop making yourself feel good and needed on the internet. You reek with AFCism. Tolstaya suchka. :nono:




Op, the girl's an attention wh0re. She used you as a little boy to get her things, and after that she used your attention to make her self feel better about her self.

YEa, they might have find you cute, and tested your butt by sending you to get them things.

Proper thing to do is to tell them you don't want to party with a bunch of drunk hoes, or else send them to get beer for you.


You had no chance from the point they send you, even before you went to get beer, you were already a tool. They got what they wanted, and then more by raising your hopes and nothing. Uhmmmmm.


A lot of women are like that. When you're HOT!!!! and they want to fvck you when they see you, then it's a bit different. But it's still there, and you must know how to deal with that, how to set the frame right and not let them set it the way they want it.



P.S. Human communication is only 7 percent verbal, the rest 93 percent are none verbal. DD... What did he say with that look on his face when they ask him to go get beer for them.. The right thing was to say "I am not a boy you could use to get you things, I don't need you, I don't have to get you drunk to sarge you."
 

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dontwannabeafc said:
...the guy that was her ex knew i was getting her and he tried to talk some ****, he was like hey buff guy buy an x large instead of a small shirt...
your reply..."sorry, I'm not into guys. I like to wear tight shirts to see who gets turned on by my hot bod, kinda scary that it was you though, but I can respect your straight forwardness, at least it shows you are comfortable with your sexual preference".
 

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Forgive my post, I was kinda :crazy: when I wrote it. Well I should have written that the girl that was diggin me was not the one who sent us to get beer, I hadnt even talked to her or anything till after I came back from the beer run. My friend I was with ended up F*cking the chick who gave us cash to go get beer. I think I will be there again tonight, ill see how it goes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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