"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol emergency respond fast

Sato21m

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hey i'm at my computer lab this chick fine ass **** is in the in front of me talking on aol and i can see from here she show the guy a pic of her dressing like a cat i got her sn i wanna tell her something and i dont even know her whats best thing to do in this situation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Giovanni Casanova

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IM her and say, "Hey, that's a nice looking p*ssy."
 

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lol p*ssy cat u mean??
she is not naked on the picture she has a custome i think from holloween
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Go up to her and make a comment about something she's wearing. "That's a really interesting ring/necklace/shoes/earrings/hat/shirt. Where did you get that?" Avoid all the IM bull5hit. She's right in front of you for chrissake!
 

Giovanni Casanova

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I'm telling you, saying "That's a nice-looking p*ssy" is the money.

:D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hehehehe
no i wanna tell her something funny about the picture by im
Like hey you should always wear that kitty outfit
 

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make cat sounds when her back is turned, like: "meow" "meeeooooow"! :D
 

Giovanni Casanova

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If you don't tell her that's a nice looking p*ssy, don't blame me when she isn't riding you like a mechanical bull later tonight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Go up to her and make a comment about something she's wearing. "That's a really interesting ring/necklace/shoes/earrings/hat/shirt. Where did you get that?" Avoid all the IM bull5hit. She's right in front of you for chrissake!
Exactly. She's right there. Go for it.

You might say something like, "You don't need to flash your p#ssy. All you have to do is say hi."

She might come back with a bewildered look and then you can tell her you saw the pic of her halloween costume. If she doesn't get it or laugh then bust on her for not having a sense of humour and then run with it.

Just my 2 cents.

Don't forget to report back.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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