"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol crazy, first she says yes on aim then when we meet up she says slow it down????

YoungSir4sho

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Yea I was talkin to dis girl from an online website fo less den a day.She said dat I was cute on da site n dat we should talk. I have a midnite to 8am shift. So I was talkin to her on aim fo about 20mins n it was goin good. I said im a big risk taker n stuff like dat n even tho we aint kno each otha yet I said to give us a chance. She said dats a big risk but she den said ok dat she will b my girl....

So I get her numba n talk on da phone. She then says to see her this morning. I saw her at 9am right afta I got off of work. She looked betta in person, she sees me n gives me dat church hug so rite there I knew something was wrong. Then she asks where are we goin n I say to get something to eat since we was hungry so we went to mcdonalds.

She keeps tellin me dat I have a babyface n dat she thought I was taller n likes men dat is 6ft 2 thru 6 ft 5. Im like 5 ft 10. So we get thru dat part. Once we leave da train station n we talk about sumthin im laughin sayin yea u kno I wear da pants of our relationship so we goin dis way. Den she says o u didn't get my last instant message. Im like wat. She says yea Its not gonna work out n otha bs.

So we still talkin fo an hour. N im tryin to convince her like y u said yea u will b my girl on aim but now u sayin nah. She says ppl change n dat she was thinkin dat while she was takin a shower. She tells me dat we should take it real slow n dat we should b friends n even best friends. Den she says dat when she broke up wit her ex she promised her self dat da next man she has dat he has to b a friend n best friend fo a while b4 get into a relationship.


She said that we got into da relationship to quick n it was a spur of da moment thing lmao. So im like so when u gonna kno. She said she will let me kno wheneva she feels it is right. Then she says n if u don't wanna b friends den its alright wit her n dat I don't have to talk to her lol. Well afta few more mins I give her a hug cuz she has to leave...


So wat did I do wrong every1? Mayb I shouldn't have asked her out on aim. O n she said dat I should b happy I saw her cuz she neva met any1 off of da internet b4 lol. Mayb I shouldn't have tried to convince her to stay wit me? I need to learn wat happened
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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1. Trying to spark a relationship online isnt always good.

2. You took things too fast, wanting a relationship with her after hanging out for one day.

3. You took her to mcdonalds, so now she thinks your cheap as hell...

4. There was no rapport or connection.

5. She friend-zoned you

And DONT try to convince her to like you/go out with you, thats being a needy chump. You dont need her.

Dont love someone who doesnt love you (or something like that)
 

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HandyAndy said:
1. Trying to spark a relationship online isnt always good.

2. You took things too fast, wanting a relationship with her after hanging out for one day.

3. You took her to mcdonalds, so now she thinks your cheap as hell...

4. There was no rapport or connection.

5. She friend-zoned you

And DONT try to convince her to like you/go out with you, thats being a needy chump. You dont need her.

Dont love someone who doesnt love you (or something like that)
:up: Dude, for a 16 year old, this was mature status advice. Nice going
 

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000h! no sir no sir! You know you need to step up your game when a 16 yr old is giving you advice!

You def took things a little too fast. I mean asking her to be your gf before you meet up? I dont know if thats a risk taker or a guy in serious need of pu.ssy. You don't wanna appear like the latter.
You've fu.cked up.
I say you next the ho and learn from this mistake.
 

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Jesus Christ, because you TALK like that, doesn't mean you have to type like that.

Proofread your post and fix the bullsh*t and you may get more replies.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ya bud your grammar is harsh killin it here.A few mistakes is OK here and there but that is ridiculous bro.

Maybe she thought you looked better in pictures than in person?I mean in pictures usually the BEST ones of you are up so maybe she saw the real deal in person and didn't like it.Thats just my 2 cents since Ive definately heard of stuff like that happening.Also just the fact you took her to McD's man ouch.....
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I was talkin to dis girl from an online website fo less den a day.She said dat I was cute on da site n dat we should talk. I have a midnite to 8am shift. So I was talkin to her on aim fo about 20mins n it was goin good. I said im a big risk taker n stuff like dat n even tho we aint kno each otha yet I said to give us a chance. She said dats a big risk but she den said ok dat she will b my girl....

So I get her numba n talk on da phone. She then says to see her this morning. I saw her at 9am right afta I got off of work. She looked betta in person, she sees me n gives me dat church hug so rite there I knew something was wrong. Then she asks where are we goin n I say to get something to eat since we was hungry so we went to mcdonalds.

She keeps tellin me dat I have a babyface n dat she thought I was taller n likes men dat is 6ft 2 thru 6 ft 5. Im like 5 ft 10. So we get thru dat part. Once we leave da train station n we talk about sumthin im laughin sayin yea u kno I wear da pants of our relationship so we goin dis way. Den she says o u didn't get my last instant message. Im like wat. She says yea Its not gonna work out n otha bs.

So we still talkin fo an hour. N im tryin to convince her like y u said yea u will b my girl on aim but now u sayin nah. She says ppl change n dat she was thinkin dat while she was takin a shower. She tells me dat we should take it real slow n dat we should b friends n even best friends. Den she says dat when she broke up wit her ex she promised her self dat da next man she has dat he has to b a friend n best friend fo a while b4 get into a relationship.


She said that we got into da relationship to quick n it was a spur of da moment thing lmao. So im like so when u gonna kno. She said she will let me kno wheneva she feels it is right. Then she says n if u don't wanna b friends den its alright wit her n dat I don't have to talk to her lol. Well afta few more mins I give her a hug cuz she has to leave...


So wat did I do wrong every1? Mayb I shouldn't have asked her out on aim. O n she said dat I should b happy I saw her cuz she neva met any1 off of da internet b4 lol. Mayb I shouldn't have tried to convince her to stay wit me? I need to learn wat happened
she was frontin on you when you guys met up so just find another shorty. Jamaica Queens, thats where i bought my car lol. anyway just forget her and game another one.
 

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Lol im not in need of serious *****, I have anotha girl. I just felt like taking it fast since usually that works out. I did make a lot of mistakes tho so it will just make me better.

Also she said she wanted me to see her next week but im guessing I shouldn't try to pursue this any longer. I already deleted her aim n erased her numba. Its like I wanna be persistent but I guess being persistent in this will not work n to move on.... o yea n im realizing online is a waste of time to find relationships n trust me I should kno I used to b da king of pickup online ish lol.
 
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