"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LOL Chick gave me a fake number

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Whats going on playas. First off I'd like to thank the djs who came through with some advice it really came through. But check it out I got these 3 girls numbers on Thursday so I called them today. The 2 chicks that wasn't all that fine their numbers were real. But the real fine chick lol her number was "no longer in service" lol its funny thinking about it but that **** just cast a stone at my pride and confidence. Oh well I guess I just gotta learn how to talk to her the same way I was talking to the other girls. Oh yea I'm up to day 33 of not masturbating. On the real when you don't do it for so long it feels like someone just pushed you in front of a girl to talk to her the only thought in your mind is *****. I'm out though playas stay up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A good way to find out if her number is fake or not is to ask her tell it to you and that you'll try to remember it. When she tells you try to remember it then tell her "Ok well I guess I can't keep it all in my head" or something like that... then ask her to write it down. If the number she told you and the one she wrote down was different, then *Ta da!* its a fake! However, this won't work if shes gives you her number to a soon to be expired cellphone number >_<
 

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Why would you try to get the real number of a girl who is trying to give you a fake number? That obviously means she's not interested.

Just next her when you find out it's fake. Done.
 

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I had to bump this thread up,I got a fake number recently;apparently the damn girl took me for fool and gave me her so called
number,so I called twice and the chick said that it was the wrong number,so now I'm pissed,that was just messed up she should have just said no straight up:down: So any ideas as to what to do?should I confront her about it or I just move on? thanks.BTW I've been here before so I know about the DJ Bible and stuff like that.
 

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I was given a fake number about 6 years ago. The number just rang and rang--i think it was a payphone...lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Centaurion

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lol at least you got a fake number.

One time I got the rejection line - there was this answering machine saying "Hello, you've now reached the Rejection Line. The person that gave you this number does not wish to see you again. Have a nice day!"

My buds had a field day with that one.

:cheer:
 

Jon341427

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Originally posted by Centaurion
lol at least you got a fake number.

One time I got the rejection line - there was this answering machine saying "Hello, you've now reached the Rejection Line. The person that gave you this number does not wish to see you again. Have a nice day!"

My buds had a field day with that one.

:cheer:
hahahhahaha, that must of been great
 

TxCowboy

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I get these every now and then ... In fact , if and when I do ... they usually give me the boyfriend's phone # or just a imaginary number they pulled out their h0 a$$

Its as simple as this .... They dont like u, so NEXT ......
 

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Simple

Try this one. If you got a bad #, and run into her, tell her the # didn't work, so that's why you haven't called. This puts her on the spot, and makes the "easy way out" not so easy after all. :D

With one gal who gave me an email address and a wrong phone #, I told her the phone # (xxx-xxx-xxxx) didn't work, so if I took it down wrong to give me a call or send the correct #. That implies I don't want her #, and don't care all that much if she gave me a wrong one.

I've never got a rejection hotline #, but I couldn't imagine getting one unless it's a crash-and-burn, no attraction or rapport cold approach in which you were downright foolish to think she was into you and would want you to call her in the first place. In that case it's best to just brush it off without a care, and if you do see her around, just act as if you'd never met her and don't want to. If for some bizarre reason she tries to engage you in conversation, just get rid of her coolly like you would any unwanted pest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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