"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol can someone help me with somethin clever for this

stoner1129

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so this girl adds me on myspace and starts commenting on my pics sayain how cute i am, and then she comments me on one of my arms, so i and she leaves me a comment saying

her:Haha with those trees for arms you might break my hand just shaking it LOL: )

lol i'm just looking for something clever to tell her back
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll break you, biitch!!
 

horaholic

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come feel my wood.
 

Kevin Feng

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She’s being playful with you and its very clear she likes you in this situation. Remember, always keep a fun positive playful frame, she’s already put you on a pedestal with that comment, no need to DLV yourself or play it modest, keep your value and throw back a playful comment.

As far as text game goes, I find that it’s always good to keep it concise, fun and to the point:

“I’ll try not to ;) , hope you have good medical coverage”
 
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