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logistics question

mackdaddy27

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I am wondering for those of you who go on dates,

how far is your pad from the place of the date ? Does such a distance present any logistical questions?

The reason I ask, when I try to isolate back to my pad, i used to live very close to the place I go on a date. So it was just like walking there. Now I might move like 15mins away driving, and it might present some logistics issues of bringing her back to your pad.

I mean, if its really a big deal, I dont mind continuing to stay at the same location but its just not worth the money for being so close.

Any opinions/ideas on this..


Thanks.
 

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BadsnakeUK

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You will need to get her back to yours to really get things moving. It just requires a little more forward planning. I presume you already have some lines to hand for getting her to want to come back to yours in the first place. If she asks how far away it is, be vague. The key is to have a plan, be as efficient as possible in getting her back and, critically, to fill the time. You will need the gift of the gab here to keep her occupied so she doesn't notice the journey or the time passing. Just talk, keep her mind on other things and fill the space. Then carry on as normal.
 

Mavrick

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The best way to get her to your place is to tell her you need to run by the house and pick something up. When you get there, ask her to come in. Then once you two start making out, she will let down her defense because in her mind it was all just happening because it was accidental and not intended.
 
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